Ok, i recently found myself in a big mess due to my ex girlfriend lying. I live in Florida, she lives in Virginia. 5 years ago my girlfriend of the time became pregnant, she stated it wasnt mine she was cheating on me. She got together with this guy and they moved in together. She had the baby, put him on the birth certificate and he has been raising it since birth. They moved up to Virginia so on and so forth. Well now they are divorced and they are fighting over custody of the child and out of the blue my ex starts talking to me stating her attorney wants me to submit to a paternity test because he did one and is not the biological father. She stated they are loosing the court cases and her attorney feels this will somehow help them stop him from having full custody and full rights. She claims they want him off of the birth certificate and wants my help. Now having a family of my own now and finding out that this child is mine is blowing my mind. She is now re-married and claims she is not doing this to get back child support from me or anything, she wants the child to remain thinking that this other guy is her father as she doesnt want to put that on the child. She asked for my address so they can send the papers to have me go submit to the test. Now i just dont know what to do. I do want to help her but at this point she lied to me and i dont want to find myself in the middle of a big custody war for a daughter i have never seen. Will it change anything in their court case if i do submit to the test and come back as the biological father? What will that mean for me? Should i have her attorney write something up stating that they are not going to go after me for payments of child support for a child that i never even knew i had? Any advice would help i would be greatly appreciated.