penelope10
Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? TX
I just found out that my ex husband decided to take Lil Bit to a doctor to see if she has attention deficit today. He never emailed me or let me know that this was the game plan. She has been going to the same pediatrician since birth and there has never been any mention of attention deficit. I email OZ today and basically stated I was surprised that he took her to a doctor without conferring with me first. And that my preference would have been that she had gone through her pediatrician to get a referral. (Lil Bit stated that her Dad found this doctor on the internet through his insurance health care providers).
Lil Bit has a heart murmur so I am reluctant to have her on any unnecessary medications. I don't even know the name of the doctor he took her to.
Per the decree it states that Penelope as a parent joint managing conservator, shall have the following rights:
1. the right to receive information from the other parent concerning the health, education, and welfare of the child;
2. the right to confer with the other parent to the extent possible before making a decision concerning the health, education, and welfare of the child, etc.
Is there much more that I can do about this? I have had the same phone number and email address since before we were divorced and am upset that this is the first that I have heard of this. (She's 17 and been going through the same school system with no mention of Attention Deficit) Lil Bit just mentioned that she thought she might have AD because she has trouble concentrating. (Never a complaint until she started Sr High this year).
What, if anything can I do about this?
I just found out that my ex husband decided to take Lil Bit to a doctor to see if she has attention deficit today. He never emailed me or let me know that this was the game plan. She has been going to the same pediatrician since birth and there has never been any mention of attention deficit. I email OZ today and basically stated I was surprised that he took her to a doctor without conferring with me first. And that my preference would have been that she had gone through her pediatrician to get a referral. (Lil Bit stated that her Dad found this doctor on the internet through his insurance health care providers).
Lil Bit has a heart murmur so I am reluctant to have her on any unnecessary medications. I don't even know the name of the doctor he took her to.
Per the decree it states that Penelope as a parent joint managing conservator, shall have the following rights:
1. the right to receive information from the other parent concerning the health, education, and welfare of the child;
2. the right to confer with the other parent to the extent possible before making a decision concerning the health, education, and welfare of the child, etc.
Is there much more that I can do about this? I have had the same phone number and email address since before we were divorced and am upset that this is the first that I have heard of this. (She's 17 and been going through the same school system with no mention of Attention Deficit) Lil Bit just mentioned that she thought she might have AD because she has trouble concentrating. (Never a complaint until she started Sr High this year).
What, if anything can I do about this?