Maryland.
My husband and his ex-wife have been divorced for 5 years. They have equal joint custody of their daughter. She's with us one full week and then her mother, so forth and so on. I have looked through posts and I would assume that there is no custodial and non-custodial parent. They equally share all medical expenses and extra-curricular activities with one exeption. There is a clause that says "In lieu of child support, husband agrees to pay for child's summer care expenses". We have struggled through this for the past few years, paying over $1000 per summer because the ex keeps threatening to take us to court, which we honestly cannot afford. His daughter turned 13 last August. In our state, is it legal for her to be home by herself. The ex has now informed us that she needs to go to Teen Camp this summer, another $1500. Do we have a legal foot to stand on? I don't think child support should be a factor because they have her 50/50 and the ex and her new husband certainly make more than us. Do we have to pay for this camp now that she's 13?
My husband and his ex-wife have been divorced for 5 years. They have equal joint custody of their daughter. She's with us one full week and then her mother, so forth and so on. I have looked through posts and I would assume that there is no custodial and non-custodial parent. They equally share all medical expenses and extra-curricular activities with one exeption. There is a clause that says "In lieu of child support, husband agrees to pay for child's summer care expenses". We have struggled through this for the past few years, paying over $1000 per summer because the ex keeps threatening to take us to court, which we honestly cannot afford. His daughter turned 13 last August. In our state, is it legal for her to be home by herself. The ex has now informed us that she needs to go to Teen Camp this summer, another $1500. Do we have a legal foot to stand on? I don't think child support should be a factor because they have her 50/50 and the ex and her new husband certainly make more than us. Do we have to pay for this camp now that she's 13?