needadvice31
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? NC
Facts
1. Father and I were never married
2. We had 1 child together, who is nearly 3
3. Father and I split up when child was 1
4 Father and I agreed to everyother weekend visits
5. Father only had child on 2 visits..he frequently missed visitation due to a drug addiction
6. Father moves 3200 miles away after threatening to kill me when i refused to let child visit him the day he gets back from a 3 week drug binge.
7. Father has had no contact with child since march 2005
8. Father flat out refuses to pay child support..said, and i quote, "you get to raise him and pay for him"
9. Father is constantly rubbing in just how much money he has. This is another thing he had typed "CA$H I$ KING! It is so nice to never worry about money. Whatever you need whenever you need is a great feeling. True freedom to do anything at any time. I feel sorry for the poor dumb folk in the world. But GOD has blessed me with all this money for a reason. AMEN free advice, Protect you inheritence from Vultures N/A to the poor"
10. Father claims he will be recieve a lump sum of money in excess of $20,000 and said our child will not get any of it.
11. Father is not working, is actually living off of his mother's money, but has to have a job by May cuz he is on probation for Grand theft Auto...
12. My medicaid just went through and they will be filing for child support, yet I know he will just hide and avoid the system, like he's done with his ex wife. He owes her over $40,000 in back support
I think that covers the facts...if you need more info let me know.
Honestly i have a few combined questions. I hope you don't mind..
1. How can I "make" him support his child.
2. If he doesn't want to support him, hasn't seen him is that grounds for having his rights removed? Mind you, I wouldn't do it now even if i could because i am not married and there really is no reason for it...ie..adoption...but i just wanted to know my options.
Thanks in advance for any and all advice i get, i appreciate (sp?) it very much.
3. I have not filed for custody only because i am living where he does not no about due to the death threats and harrassment. However, I want to
Facts
1. Father and I were never married
2. We had 1 child together, who is nearly 3
3. Father and I split up when child was 1
4 Father and I agreed to everyother weekend visits
5. Father only had child on 2 visits..he frequently missed visitation due to a drug addiction
6. Father moves 3200 miles away after threatening to kill me when i refused to let child visit him the day he gets back from a 3 week drug binge.
7. Father has had no contact with child since march 2005
8. Father flat out refuses to pay child support..said, and i quote, "you get to raise him and pay for him"
9. Father is constantly rubbing in just how much money he has. This is another thing he had typed "CA$H I$ KING! It is so nice to never worry about money. Whatever you need whenever you need is a great feeling. True freedom to do anything at any time. I feel sorry for the poor dumb folk in the world. But GOD has blessed me with all this money for a reason. AMEN free advice, Protect you inheritence from Vultures N/A to the poor"
10. Father claims he will be recieve a lump sum of money in excess of $20,000 and said our child will not get any of it.
11. Father is not working, is actually living off of his mother's money, but has to have a job by May cuz he is on probation for Grand theft Auto...
12. My medicaid just went through and they will be filing for child support, yet I know he will just hide and avoid the system, like he's done with his ex wife. He owes her over $40,000 in back support
I think that covers the facts...if you need more info let me know.
Honestly i have a few combined questions. I hope you don't mind..
1. How can I "make" him support his child.
2. If he doesn't want to support him, hasn't seen him is that grounds for having his rights removed? Mind you, I wouldn't do it now even if i could because i am not married and there really is no reason for it...ie..adoption...but i just wanted to know my options.
Thanks in advance for any and all advice i get, i appreciate (sp?) it very much.
3. I have not filed for custody only because i am living where he does not no about due to the death threats and harrassment. However, I want to