Myexisajerk2001
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? IL
My ex boyfriend and I have a 7 week old daughter. He denied the child through the whole pregnancy and then stated he wanted a paternity test, but would not initiate it. So I did....and after I paid a LOT of money for a lawyer, he served ME with papers. He is currently not on the birth cirtificate but wanted to see my daughter all the time. I wouldnt let him because he wanted everything but fiscal responsibility for her. I cant wait to take this damn test! Anyway....he wanted to settle everything out of court because it would be cheaper for both of us. He said he couldnt pay the 20% required by the state, he cant afford her on his insurance, he wont pay half day care and so on. So his lawyer served papers to my parents house today. My question....can the judge lower the percentage he has to pay? He bought a new 35,000 car 3 months ago, he moved out of his parents house and got an apartment with his gf KNOWING he had this child on the way. His words were "I still have to have a life" Will the court look at his income and his new expenses and lower the amount my daughter will get? Im sick to my stomache that he cares more about his car then his daughter. HELP!!!What is the name of your state?
My ex boyfriend and I have a 7 week old daughter. He denied the child through the whole pregnancy and then stated he wanted a paternity test, but would not initiate it. So I did....and after I paid a LOT of money for a lawyer, he served ME with papers. He is currently not on the birth cirtificate but wanted to see my daughter all the time. I wouldnt let him because he wanted everything but fiscal responsibility for her. I cant wait to take this damn test! Anyway....he wanted to settle everything out of court because it would be cheaper for both of us. He said he couldnt pay the 20% required by the state, he cant afford her on his insurance, he wont pay half day care and so on. So his lawyer served papers to my parents house today. My question....can the judge lower the percentage he has to pay? He bought a new 35,000 car 3 months ago, he moved out of his parents house and got an apartment with his gf KNOWING he had this child on the way. His words were "I still have to have a life" Will the court look at his income and his new expenses and lower the amount my daughter will get? Im sick to my stomache that he cares more about his car then his daughter. HELP!!!What is the name of your state?