What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Florida but my case is in Michigan.
I took a dive off of the planet about 6 years ago in which I stopped paying my child support, stopped working, lived as a loser-bum and basically haven't done anything good or right, up until a few months ago when after living with my sister for a few months, getting clean and developing a genuine desire to come back to the world and do the right thing, I also was very lucky and found a great job that I probably don't deserve. But anyway, I contacted the CS people in MI a few weeks ago just to update the situation (I also have a pending disability case) but this is the 1st time in 3 or 4 years that I contacted them....all my fault, I know. A couple weeks later, I am told that the local sheriffs came to arrest me at work and extradite me to Michigan. I wasn't there at the time. I called the prosecutor's office there and they said there is nothing that can be done besides turning myself in. I would think (and I don't often do that) that they'd be willing to work out a payment plan, because if they arrest me, I probably won't be able to pay for a long time whereas, if not, I will start paying right away (that's why I contacted them). I know it's probably a long shot of getting anything done without actually going to Michigan and turning myself in, but I am just looking for suggestions. I don't have a car or any assets to sell. I just have the weekly pay that I have been making. So I can't afford an attorney and I wouldn't be able to post a bond when I got there, if I go. Am I absolutely screwed here, or is there anything that might get the warrant recalled in lieu of a hearing to make a payment arrangement? Thanks in advance for any advise And before you all attack me for being a deadbeat, I know...I am a piece of ****. I cared more about myself my entire life than about anyone else, until the last year or so. I didn't find God or any **** like that, I found that all the things I used to think were important like money and stuff, are bull****. I have reconnected with my daughter, who turns 18 next month and I have spoken to her every day for the last several months. I am more worried about losing her than my job. I am just trying to think logically and it plainly doesn't make sense to arrest and jail me, for not paying, when that will cause me to KEEP not paying, and I was looking to (finally) do the right thing and start paying again. Being homeless and poor has wrecked my health, I am diabetic and have other issues too, and I am also finally able to see a doctor regularly. I would think that letting me start paying immediately would be better than taking away my ability to pay, cost the state a lot of medical expenses to jail and keep me, and risk that I'll come back and not be able to regain employment again....does that make sense?
I took a dive off of the planet about 6 years ago in which I stopped paying my child support, stopped working, lived as a loser-bum and basically haven't done anything good or right, up until a few months ago when after living with my sister for a few months, getting clean and developing a genuine desire to come back to the world and do the right thing, I also was very lucky and found a great job that I probably don't deserve. But anyway, I contacted the CS people in MI a few weeks ago just to update the situation (I also have a pending disability case) but this is the 1st time in 3 or 4 years that I contacted them....all my fault, I know. A couple weeks later, I am told that the local sheriffs came to arrest me at work and extradite me to Michigan. I wasn't there at the time. I called the prosecutor's office there and they said there is nothing that can be done besides turning myself in. I would think (and I don't often do that) that they'd be willing to work out a payment plan, because if they arrest me, I probably won't be able to pay for a long time whereas, if not, I will start paying right away (that's why I contacted them). I know it's probably a long shot of getting anything done without actually going to Michigan and turning myself in, but I am just looking for suggestions. I don't have a car or any assets to sell. I just have the weekly pay that I have been making. So I can't afford an attorney and I wouldn't be able to post a bond when I got there, if I go. Am I absolutely screwed here, or is there anything that might get the warrant recalled in lieu of a hearing to make a payment arrangement? Thanks in advance for any advise And before you all attack me for being a deadbeat, I know...I am a piece of ****. I cared more about myself my entire life than about anyone else, until the last year or so. I didn't find God or any **** like that, I found that all the things I used to think were important like money and stuff, are bull****. I have reconnected with my daughter, who turns 18 next month and I have spoken to her every day for the last several months. I am more worried about losing her than my job. I am just trying to think logically and it plainly doesn't make sense to arrest and jail me, for not paying, when that will cause me to KEEP not paying, and I was looking to (finally) do the right thing and start paying again. Being homeless and poor has wrecked my health, I am diabetic and have other issues too, and I am also finally able to see a doctor regularly. I would think that letting me start paying immediately would be better than taking away my ability to pay, cost the state a lot of medical expenses to jail and keep me, and risk that I'll come back and not be able to regain employment again....does that make sense?
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