interestofchild
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Florida
Divorced in 2006
Child Support: $1400/month for 2 children
I have a consultant business. Lost clients in 2008 due to economy, more in 2009 and still more this year. I have lived off my 401K in desperate times.
Ex gets laid off in March 2011. From the time of divorce to lay-off, he had a $30,000 or 55% increase in income. After lay-off, from a union, he wants to reduce support by $1000/ month AND HE GOT IT!!
In 2008 and 2010, I took him back to get him to pay half of kids unpaid medical and half of extracurricular (these were never worked out in our final judgment). He refused in mediation both times. I was pro se, he had an attorney.
During hearing on reduction, he told the Magistrate that he couldn't get other work because he is in a union and didn't want to lose standing or benefits. I showed that he would lose neither. He lives with his girlfriend and her 2 kids. She doesn't work so he is supporting them. He's borrowing from his mother and told the Magistrate that he needed a reduction to pay her back!!
He got his reduction even though I showed that it would not be in the best interests of the children. Also, he does not have visitation with the kids. They are 16 and 15 and have chosen not to visit with him. The Magistrate imputed his income to minimum wage.
My choices are to file a Motion to Vacate or try to Modify later.
I am now on the verge of foreclosure.
What is my best case? Vacate or Modify?
Thanks for your time.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Divorced in 2006
Child Support: $1400/month for 2 children
I have a consultant business. Lost clients in 2008 due to economy, more in 2009 and still more this year. I have lived off my 401K in desperate times.
Ex gets laid off in March 2011. From the time of divorce to lay-off, he had a $30,000 or 55% increase in income. After lay-off, from a union, he wants to reduce support by $1000/ month AND HE GOT IT!!
In 2008 and 2010, I took him back to get him to pay half of kids unpaid medical and half of extracurricular (these were never worked out in our final judgment). He refused in mediation both times. I was pro se, he had an attorney.
During hearing on reduction, he told the Magistrate that he couldn't get other work because he is in a union and didn't want to lose standing or benefits. I showed that he would lose neither. He lives with his girlfriend and her 2 kids. She doesn't work so he is supporting them. He's borrowing from his mother and told the Magistrate that he needed a reduction to pay her back!!
He got his reduction even though I showed that it would not be in the best interests of the children. Also, he does not have visitation with the kids. They are 16 and 15 and have chosen not to visit with him. The Magistrate imputed his income to minimum wage.
My choices are to file a Motion to Vacate or try to Modify later.
I am now on the verge of foreclosure.
What is my best case? Vacate or Modify?
Thanks for your time.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?