invictusaflak
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? South Carolina
I have a friend who's in a situation. He was dating a woman until she came out and told him that she wasn't even separated from her husband. just a short period after the first time they had sex she starts saying she is pregnant. in his eyes he feels like there's no way that the kid can be his but she swears it is so he is going along.
but what is happening is that she is trying to blackmail my friend. she has told him if he doesn't commit to a relationship with her, then she is going to keep the kids (twins, has previously said she is going to give them up for adoption because shes 39 and doesn't want kids again). She has also told him that she is going to take him for child support and "screw him over" if he doesn't give into her every desire. He wants nothing to do with the woman, she's just trying to ruin his life by taking him for money.
I have heard in the state of South Carolina, no matter what, the husband is given rights to the child because it "ruins the childs view of marriage if the mother conceived outside of the marriage).
is this true? would my friend not have to pay child support and not have any legal responsibilities to this child? i know i have read stories where even when a DNA test was performed, the actual father of the child still didn't have rights because he could not be put on the birth certificate, therefore, he cannot accept the paternity of the child. (if he's told to pay child support, of course hes going to want to be in the kids' lives)
If she decides to keep these kids, whats going to happen? what if there is a court ordered DNA test, could the courts make him pay child support? would there even be a court ordered DNA test? or because shes married, all legal rights to the child are in the hands of the husband? (she says shes going to keep them herself ONLY because she wants to screw my friend over.... isnt that sick? to bring a child into the world and raise it yourself just because you wanted to get back at the father who really would rather give it up for adoption to someone who would LOVE the child). Could this not be blackmail in the courts eyes by using a child to say "date me/marry me and do everything last thing I say or I am going to have these children and make your life hell with them AND take you for child support.
whats going to happen once these kids are born?
HELP!!!!!!!!!
Thanks
I have a friend who's in a situation. He was dating a woman until she came out and told him that she wasn't even separated from her husband. just a short period after the first time they had sex she starts saying she is pregnant. in his eyes he feels like there's no way that the kid can be his but she swears it is so he is going along.
but what is happening is that she is trying to blackmail my friend. she has told him if he doesn't commit to a relationship with her, then she is going to keep the kids (twins, has previously said she is going to give them up for adoption because shes 39 and doesn't want kids again). She has also told him that she is going to take him for child support and "screw him over" if he doesn't give into her every desire. He wants nothing to do with the woman, she's just trying to ruin his life by taking him for money.
I have heard in the state of South Carolina, no matter what, the husband is given rights to the child because it "ruins the childs view of marriage if the mother conceived outside of the marriage).
is this true? would my friend not have to pay child support and not have any legal responsibilities to this child? i know i have read stories where even when a DNA test was performed, the actual father of the child still didn't have rights because he could not be put on the birth certificate, therefore, he cannot accept the paternity of the child. (if he's told to pay child support, of course hes going to want to be in the kids' lives)
If she decides to keep these kids, whats going to happen? what if there is a court ordered DNA test, could the courts make him pay child support? would there even be a court ordered DNA test? or because shes married, all legal rights to the child are in the hands of the husband? (she says shes going to keep them herself ONLY because she wants to screw my friend over.... isnt that sick? to bring a child into the world and raise it yourself just because you wanted to get back at the father who really would rather give it up for adoption to someone who would LOVE the child). Could this not be blackmail in the courts eyes by using a child to say "date me/marry me and do everything last thing I say or I am going to have these children and make your life hell with them AND take you for child support.
whats going to happen once these kids are born?
HELP!!!!!!!!!
Thanks