What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Arkansas
Hello,
This is my first post to the boards, however, I am in need of advise and after looking through these boards there appears to be a wealth of collective knowledge behind all the users on here.
In Short: I was taken to court over paternity. Paternity and eventually child support was established.
The original order for support, as well as the amended order for support have the typical refrain from harassment statement in them.
The custodial parent/mother is Active Duty Military, as am I. She has routinely over the past two years attempted to contact my Military chain of Command, and my military phone and email to contact me, and ultimately attempt to make my life hell.
Unfortunatly the military is rather two faced on this, they will listen to her crockadile tears and puppy dog eyes, but when I ask them to tell her this is a civil matter and to leave the military out of it they tell me just that "We can't tell her that... This is a civil matter and we cannot interfere with it."
So I am finally fed up. Her continued attempts at contacting me at my place of work, and through my co-workers has got to stop. It is effecting my duties as a US Military member, and effecting my workplace.
I want to re-open my case, and file some sort of motion to have it put in writing that she cannot contact me at my place of work, cannot contact my co-workers, etc.
I have a cell phone number, which she has, and a home address which she has that she can call or write to.
I have looked into a Motion to show Cause and request a temporary restraining order to restrain her from calling my workplace etc, however, I am not sure if this is the proper route.
Could someone help shed light on what route I should take?
Thank you!
X
Hello,
This is my first post to the boards, however, I am in need of advise and after looking through these boards there appears to be a wealth of collective knowledge behind all the users on here.
In Short: I was taken to court over paternity. Paternity and eventually child support was established.
The original order for support, as well as the amended order for support have the typical refrain from harassment statement in them.
The custodial parent/mother is Active Duty Military, as am I. She has routinely over the past two years attempted to contact my Military chain of Command, and my military phone and email to contact me, and ultimately attempt to make my life hell.
Unfortunatly the military is rather two faced on this, they will listen to her crockadile tears and puppy dog eyes, but when I ask them to tell her this is a civil matter and to leave the military out of it they tell me just that "We can't tell her that... This is a civil matter and we cannot interfere with it."
So I am finally fed up. Her continued attempts at contacting me at my place of work, and through my co-workers has got to stop. It is effecting my duties as a US Military member, and effecting my workplace.
I want to re-open my case, and file some sort of motion to have it put in writing that she cannot contact me at my place of work, cannot contact my co-workers, etc.
I have a cell phone number, which she has, and a home address which she has that she can call or write to.
I have looked into a Motion to show Cause and request a temporary restraining order to restrain her from calling my workplace etc, however, I am not sure if this is the proper route.
Could someone help shed light on what route I should take?
Thank you!
X