stealth2
Under the Radar Member
Of course, you are NOT responsible for your stepchildren's living expenses. That's up to THEIR parents. Your choice to do so is just that - a choice.Actually I do...two full time steps, one full time bio-all teens_ I promise you I know a lot about child expenses/costs
HAHAHAHA On what planet do you live??? My kids' high schools ran on block scheduling, so different classes fall and spring. Each semester had different teachers and different supply lists. LOL The minimal scuba gear required my youngest's frosh year in HS cost me at least a third of that $1200 (and yes, Scuba was a required course at her PUBLIC HS).I'm sorry but your numbers come across quite inflated also
School supplies for example- in a typical public school, you get supplies beginning of the year and maybe re-up on a couple things during the year- it does NOT cost $1200 a year for two kids, sorry. A lot of numbers seem exaggerated...again, we have been raising 3 teens so I DO know the costs. If they both approach raising their kids at each parent paying half of their childs support that's $1800 a month for both kids.
While some of tori's numbers did - in some cases - seem slightly inflated, most did not. The extra curricular costs alone made me crack up. Food, too.
True, but - he has still not answered whether or not what he pays is actually what is ordered.In addition, this number was found to be an accurate number based on his financial affidavit, well, BOTH their salaries, so by the COURTS and state standard he is paying what is due to his children, he's paying the arrears also.
No one called him a deadbeat - stop projecting.I will and cannot call a man a deadbeat because he got behind during a seperation period. Many of them are ordered to continue paying all household bills and do, and then get tagged w/being deadbeats for not saving for CS in ADDITION to paying all bills. I've seen it happen WAY to many times to jump to the deadbeat conclusion.
True, in some cases. Not in all. Many parents put their kids needs, interests and talents ahead of their own needs/desires. Most, even.Child expenses are divided based on what both parents make-not all kids 'qualify' for those inflated amounts or extra curriculars or french cuisine classes either they wouldn't have done this if they were married either based on their salaries I'm guessing.