What is the name of your state? New York Let me say right off the bat that we or I do not begrudge This little girl any money from support. I have lived with tis little girls father for 9 yrs. and he cannot help to contribute to our bills because of his support payments being so high. Trust me I am not being unfair as I also had two young children when I left their father and never got a cent from him so I know how hard it is to raise kids . Mark does body work at a dealership and travels 45 mins. from home to his job.He works job rate and some weeks he only has 32 hrs. on the books as the work is slow. He makes $15.00 an hour but is ordered to pay for his daughter $110.00 a week plus $70.00 a week for her health ins. That leaves him most weeks with $140.00 bring home and it cost him $40.00-$60.00 a week for gas to get to and from work. All I ask him to give me a week is $100.00 a week towards the bills. Thats $400.00 a month and most weeks he can,t .How in Gods name do they expect him to live. They take the support directly out of his check which is good but I should not have to pay for his bills. If he was not with me he would have no where to live. He is so depressed ever pay day and I don,t blame him I would be too if I worked so hard 6 days a week and had nothing to show for it. The judge in N.Y. that he goes in front of is a female and is definately for the mother. She drives around in a new van, has since remarried and is living a very comfortable life. It just doesnot seem fair. I did read somewhere that they cannot make you (him) live under the poverty level and can adjust it if it is unfair but no where can I find what $ is the poverty level in $ amounts that they are talking about. In N.Y.State it is 17% of your gross income for child support. I hate seeing him so sad. He wants her to have thing and to take care of her needs but also needs to feel worht something and to feel like a man. My heart goes out to him. If anyone has any advise I sure could use some. I know this is long and am so sorry but I really needed to talk to someone before I scream. Thanks