I just checked out the above named site to try and help fathers with their child support dilemma. Unfortunately I can't even affort to purchase the softwear to help my husband! He pays $600 a month for one child and is now being taken back to court for more money. The ex drives a 2004 car, her husband a 2002. I drive a '95 and my husband drives a '96. The ex hasn't worked in over a year, yet is remodeling her house, dresses to the hilt in designer clothes...etc. We can't afford better vehicles because evidently we're making her car payments! Shouldn't it be a factor in this court case that she is not supporting her child one bit with her own income? Now her lawyer is penalizing my husband for his 401K contributions. They want 20% of his money before the 401K amount is taken out. We live paycheck to paycheck and now it will be even harder. I work also, but seems like we're getting nowhere. Doesn't it make a difference in the court system if she doesn't work at all? Please let me know. She did tell my husband that the reason she was taking him back was because she didn't like me. I have been extremely good to his son and she knows that, I don't try to be cordial with her because she's causing so many problems. After countless harrassing phone calls, getting sworn at, I don't care how she feels. She made her bed treating me like she does, let her lay in it! I feel like I don't have to have a "relationship" with her, just my step-son. I am supporting my husband by telling him that no matter what the Good Lord will take care of things and that we'll live with whatever decision is made by the courts. Inside though, I'm worried to death about how we're going to make it if she gets even more. I know he has to go by the law, but again, shouldn't she be contributing some kind of support herself?