To the OP... if you MUST go through with this course of action, tell your ex that the moment the kids have the money in an account that HE doesn't control, you will discuss the issue.
I would even go so far as to immediately move the funds to a completely different account the moment the money arrives.
Not a moment before.
If he says he doesn't trust you to live up to your end of the financial deal, ask him how that feels.
I wouldn't even LOOK at anything his lawyer puts under your nose until that point. Literally, send them back marked "return to sender".
I would even go so far as to immediately move the funds to a completely different account the moment the money arrives.
Not a moment before.
If he says he doesn't trust you to live up to your end of the financial deal, ask him how that feels.
I wouldn't even LOOK at anything his lawyer puts under your nose until that point. Literally, send them back marked "return to sender".