What is the name of your state? MN
Last week, my 16 yo son went to live with his dad. I have sole custody. Our 19 yo daughter is attending university and living with me.
On Friday, x-h asked me to forgive him of the $41,000 debt he owes in arrears and back child support. He found out that he would still be billed for the 17 months left before our son turns 18, even though he's living with dad now. He also said they CSE told him that $5000 of that amount is to pay back the state when I had to go on welfare for a year, because he wouldn't pay child support.
He says if I agree to forgive him of the debt, in writing, he will make payments to bank accounts for the kids, with the amount eventually of $10,000 each. He wants to have control over seeing how the money is used by the kids, even though one is now an adult.
He says he will put in writing that he will not take me to court for custody and child support now that our son is living with him, if I will release him of the debt. He also wants his driver's license back.
My question is: how do I write a child support debt forgiveness letter? I have googled and found nothing. I've seen on this forum that it can be written, but I'm having trouble with the wording.
Can someone point me in the right direction please, on how to word this letter? Thanks.