lilstephy872
Junior Member
ok first let me say my story.
I'm a 19 year old college student- from arkansas who is currently 5 monthes pregnant.
Since the moment I told the father of my child that I was pregnant it has been nothing but a battle. First, with him begging me to get an abortion. Then after I wouldn't he decided that the child must not be his-and preceding to tell everyone in our small town that I was trying to pin a child on him that was not his.He has also told me that if it really is his child he will get a lawyer so he can sign over his parental rights-so he won't ever have to pay a dime. He has also dated a number of girls-seriously- since I've been pregnant.
We have spoken maybe 4 times since Febuary, and each time I have been very polite and tried to get him to really make up his mind about where he stands on the situation. So far I have paid for all the docter's expenses-and plan that I will be paying for them all.
Ok-now I need to know a few things. Is it truely possible for him to be able to sign over his rights right after my child is born? Once the child is born, and a DNA proves him to be a the father, will I be able to MAKE him pay for at least half of the docter's expenses?
I'm just lost and need to know what I need to do-and what excatly I am capable of doing. All I know is I don't believe it is fair at all that he will be able to get out of all of this.
I'm a 19 year old college student- from arkansas who is currently 5 monthes pregnant.
Since the moment I told the father of my child that I was pregnant it has been nothing but a battle. First, with him begging me to get an abortion. Then after I wouldn't he decided that the child must not be his-and preceding to tell everyone in our small town that I was trying to pin a child on him that was not his.He has also told me that if it really is his child he will get a lawyer so he can sign over his parental rights-so he won't ever have to pay a dime. He has also dated a number of girls-seriously- since I've been pregnant.
We have spoken maybe 4 times since Febuary, and each time I have been very polite and tried to get him to really make up his mind about where he stands on the situation. So far I have paid for all the docter's expenses-and plan that I will be paying for them all.
Ok-now I need to know a few things. Is it truely possible for him to be able to sign over his rights right after my child is born? Once the child is born, and a DNA proves him to be a the father, will I be able to MAKE him pay for at least half of the docter's expenses?
I'm just lost and need to know what I need to do-and what excatly I am capable of doing. All I know is I don't believe it is fair at all that he will be able to get out of all of this.
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