In Nassau County, NY
Here are the documented facts:
The last time I received a child support payment for my son was 05/26/2004. The last time my son recieved a Christmas for his father was 12/25/2001.
The last time my son recieved anything from his father even a card was in the year 2001.
The last date my son had medical coverage through his father was 11/29/2000
Last visitation taken place 7/08/2007
here's the story:
My son is now on the cusp of being a teenage and very angry with his father for most of the reasons above and additional ones that have no place in this thread. In fact he doesnt want to see him.
Every time I track down his father for his back child support he puts good offices to ill use (long story short on that part). in addition he runs to PR or to another state. He told me when he went to these locations he had been working.
Now here's the rub his last and present location is with an ex of his, who is now a paralegal, a religious instructor and has powerful connections in our state due to her family. I'm two months away from losing our family home. Child support enforcement told me they have suspended his license, put liens on his properties and all that jazz. But that hasn't stopped him he is still driving around town saying they only way he is going to pay child support if "I get back with him." Not that it isnt flattering, but not a very good idea for yours truly. Btw all tests were done at my son's birth. So denial is off the table.
Over seven years have past with no payments and I am almost drained. My son is coming of an age where he feels he needs to do something about it, bless his heart. I dont want him growing up bitter and full of hatred, I am doing all I can. With no help or relief in sight, I can definately say the system is broken down and i need of an overhaul. Intentional deadbeat parents need to wear that anklet that other criminals wear and/or be put on the "No-flight list". One of the worst kind of criminals out there since their actions are destroying young lives. They are punishing their own seeds not just the person that the romantic relationship didn't work out with.
In closing is ther anything that I can do with the psychologic the my son has been affected with and make my ex acknowledge that he is the cause? My son is a wonderful person and hard worker. Legally what can I do?
Here are the documented facts:
The last time I received a child support payment for my son was 05/26/2004. The last time my son recieved a Christmas for his father was 12/25/2001.
The last time my son recieved anything from his father even a card was in the year 2001.
The last date my son had medical coverage through his father was 11/29/2000
Last visitation taken place 7/08/2007
here's the story:
My son is now on the cusp of being a teenage and very angry with his father for most of the reasons above and additional ones that have no place in this thread. In fact he doesnt want to see him.
Every time I track down his father for his back child support he puts good offices to ill use (long story short on that part). in addition he runs to PR or to another state. He told me when he went to these locations he had been working.
Now here's the rub his last and present location is with an ex of his, who is now a paralegal, a religious instructor and has powerful connections in our state due to her family. I'm two months away from losing our family home. Child support enforcement told me they have suspended his license, put liens on his properties and all that jazz. But that hasn't stopped him he is still driving around town saying they only way he is going to pay child support if "I get back with him." Not that it isnt flattering, but not a very good idea for yours truly. Btw all tests were done at my son's birth. So denial is off the table.
Over seven years have past with no payments and I am almost drained. My son is coming of an age where he feels he needs to do something about it, bless his heart. I dont want him growing up bitter and full of hatred, I am doing all I can. With no help or relief in sight, I can definately say the system is broken down and i need of an overhaul. Intentional deadbeat parents need to wear that anklet that other criminals wear and/or be put on the "No-flight list". One of the worst kind of criminals out there since their actions are destroying young lives. They are punishing their own seeds not just the person that the romantic relationship didn't work out with.
In closing is ther anything that I can do with the psychologic the my son has been affected with and make my ex acknowledge that he is the cause? My son is a wonderful person and hard worker. Legally what can I do?