I was not aware that you could adopt for nearly free. Yes I am assuming because he has done everything he possibly could not to pay child support, but I am not asking him to stop the adoption, I was asking about the child support modification. He is married but his wife is not employed. He claims he is not making it financially but his lifestyle shows different. I agreed through child support for him to pay the 600. a month without knowing how much he actually makes because he threatened me with quiting his job, going to school and getting a part time $8.00 and hr job and paying hardly nothing. I may not be in favor of him adopting because of the emotional aspect because 2 years ago they lived here and we had 50/50 custody and the kids were confused about going house to house and they told them they wanted to live with me during the week and see him on weekends, well their stepmom told them "well if you aren't gonna love us we will adopt a child that does" and they moved across the United States. But I know I can't tell them not to adopt, they don't even know that I am aware of this and I am not gonna say anything I just wanted to know if it affects the child support.