need advice on child support

[kevin965]

im from missouri ive been paying child support on two kids for 7 years i dont have a problem paying it by i found out the youngest im paying on isnt mine i talked my lawyer who handled divorice an says i should just keep paying an not stir up trouble she doesnt know an i dont what too do.i probably wouldnt give a **** but wen i found who dad was i learned he sees her more than i do an isnt paying a penny can i take him to court an get all my child support back thanks kevin

 

[I'mTheFather]

Oh, so you're willing to give up your child?

Actually, I'm sorry for being a little misleading. After 7 years, it is extreeeeeeemely doubtful that you can do anything about the child support.

 

[TheGeekess]

im from missouri ive been paying child support on two kids for 7 years i dont have a problem paying it by i found out the youngest im paying on isnt mine i talked my lawyer who handled divorice an says i should just keep paying an not stir up trouble she doesnt know an i dont what too do.i probably wouldnt give a **** but wen i found who dad was i learned he sees her more than i do an isnt paying a penny can i take him to court an get all my child support back thanks kevin

Short answer: No.

 

[kevin965]

ok so what are my options can i report to child support enforcement an get payments stopped the oldest is 18 an drops in oct kevin

 

[I'mTheFather]

Nope.

Here's what you do. First, get your ex to marry this other guy. Then convince him to do a stepparent adoption. You will relinquish your parental rights and your child support obligations.

 

[kevin965]

she cant

shes married to someone else

 

[I'mTheFather]

Bummer!

Well, try to convince her husband to adopt your daughter!

 

[Proserpina]

Oh, so you're willing to give up your child?

Actually, I'm sorry for being a little misleading. After 7 years, it is extreeeeeeemely doubtful that you can do anything about the child support.

It's even worse than extreeeeeemely doubtful. Paternity was irrevocably finalized in the divorce.

No going back now - period.