What is the name of your state?-texas
my sons father is bringing a lawyer to the conference and the only thing i can think of is to contest the paternity..
backstory.
i hooked up with the father the last few days of december but i had known him for 2 years and the evening that we concieved our child we were inhebriated and he used a bad condom. well i ended up pregnant and we weren't dating and i didn't find out i was pregnant until february towards the beginning of march. well i had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend. I had called my boyfriend when i found out and told him everything and we told the father. the father immediatly wanted an abortion but i refused. I made the mistake of letting it happen and i was going to take responsibility for it and raise the child. He wanted absolutly nothing to do with it. My boyfriend wanted to help me raise the child as ours, with his part being more emotional and supportive for me and the child. So we lived together as man and wife, his parents even regarded us as such. Then a few months later I found out his current girlfriend was pregnant. And he never asked her for an abortion. In fact he moved her in and did all the fatherly duties for his second child. Dont' get me wrong, im not spiteful of this, just disappointed. He didn't even tell his girlfriend i was having his firstborn until I was 5 months pregnant. Well me and his girlfriend became friends and she even bought my son clothes. The father didn't give him anything and didn't even show any concern when he was born. Well when the issue of child support came up I was on the fence about having it go through the court because I wanted to maintain a healthy relationship with my sons father but it has been 4months since my sons birth and we haven't discussed the issue because he has been avoiding it and me. The only time he has seen my son was when i brought him to his home with his girlfriend. His friends have told him that my son couldn't be his because my son has hazel eyes and we both have brown eyes, the eye color ( from my undestanding) is irrelevant. But my son has his ears and his chubby features. I think he is just trying to get out of paying child support. I just want my son to have something from his birth father. I know the test is going to say its him because the dates match and his due date was only 3 days off and the father was the only person i had intercourse with in that month. The only other time was with my once close friend and that was almost a month earlier. Also, The fathers information isn't on the childs B.C. and my boyfriends last name was used as my sons surname.. is that a problem ill have to discuss at the conference? What should I bring with me and What should I possibly expect to happen?
my sons father is bringing a lawyer to the conference and the only thing i can think of is to contest the paternity..
backstory.
i hooked up with the father the last few days of december but i had known him for 2 years and the evening that we concieved our child we were inhebriated and he used a bad condom. well i ended up pregnant and we weren't dating and i didn't find out i was pregnant until february towards the beginning of march. well i had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend. I had called my boyfriend when i found out and told him everything and we told the father. the father immediatly wanted an abortion but i refused. I made the mistake of letting it happen and i was going to take responsibility for it and raise the child. He wanted absolutly nothing to do with it. My boyfriend wanted to help me raise the child as ours, with his part being more emotional and supportive for me and the child. So we lived together as man and wife, his parents even regarded us as such. Then a few months later I found out his current girlfriend was pregnant. And he never asked her for an abortion. In fact he moved her in and did all the fatherly duties for his second child. Dont' get me wrong, im not spiteful of this, just disappointed. He didn't even tell his girlfriend i was having his firstborn until I was 5 months pregnant. Well me and his girlfriend became friends and she even bought my son clothes. The father didn't give him anything and didn't even show any concern when he was born. Well when the issue of child support came up I was on the fence about having it go through the court because I wanted to maintain a healthy relationship with my sons father but it has been 4months since my sons birth and we haven't discussed the issue because he has been avoiding it and me. The only time he has seen my son was when i brought him to his home with his girlfriend. His friends have told him that my son couldn't be his because my son has hazel eyes and we both have brown eyes, the eye color ( from my undestanding) is irrelevant. But my son has his ears and his chubby features. I think he is just trying to get out of paying child support. I just want my son to have something from his birth father. I know the test is going to say its him because the dates match and his due date was only 3 days off and the father was the only person i had intercourse with in that month. The only other time was with my once close friend and that was almost a month earlier. Also, The fathers information isn't on the childs B.C. and my boyfriends last name was used as my sons surname.. is that a problem ill have to discuss at the conference? What should I bring with me and What should I possibly expect to happen?