What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I will sum up our situation as best as possible. My husband had left for a military deployment in June 2011, prior to the deployment there were current custody/visitation orders in place, where his children resided with him and mother was allowed to see children monday-friday afterschool until 5pm and every other weekend, no support was being paid to the mother (support has never been exchanged between either party) (she has not held a job in nearly 3 years and is on welfare) she had not adhered to current order for 16 months, only chose to see the kids one day a week. As soon as she got wind of his deployment she took him to court, was awarded the kids for the duration of the deployment and the based on his income they were going to award her $3300 a month in child support. There is no way we as a family could have afforded that amount and still have paid our own rent/bills. They plea bargained back and forth and agreed (he was forced or they would have went for the throat and got the $3300) on $2150 with the stipulation that upon his return they go to a week on week off and mother does not have to return to court and file an OSC to get more custody with the kids. Judge wanted to go back to the original order of mother seeing kids Monday-Friday and every other weekend, but that was based on us paying the full $3300, which as I said would have been impossible for us. He has recently asked about the custody situation on his return and mentioned that if they follow through with week on week off, that the support should be halved to $1075. She says the support is remaining the same, according to the court order, because 'she did him a favor by not taking the $3300 and accepted less'
CAN WE FIGHT THIS WHEN HE RETURNS? I mean they had orders in place, and she never adhered to them, we had piles of legit documention against her skills as a mother, (SARB reports from school...declarations from former friends/neighbors about drug use and men in the house on the last deployment they were married) none of which helped our case. Will he be able to file an OSC to get the amount lessened to a more fair amount of $1075 based on 50/50? I see nowhere in the court paperwork where it states that the support will remain at $2150 based on 50/50.
Sorry for being so long winded, this whole situation has been near and dear to my heart and very stressful as well, as I see the kids daily and the money is not being used for child support to it's fullest extent. I receive child support for my 2 children and it is 1/4 of what she recieves, and that is by my own choice, I will never take what I am 'entitled' to, I do not need that much money, as I work myself and make an income. California courts seem to favor the mother no matter what, regardless of their history as a parent and their lack of wanting to get a job. Why should the other parent have to make up that difference. It's ridiculous.
I will sum up our situation as best as possible. My husband had left for a military deployment in June 2011, prior to the deployment there were current custody/visitation orders in place, where his children resided with him and mother was allowed to see children monday-friday afterschool until 5pm and every other weekend, no support was being paid to the mother (support has never been exchanged between either party) (she has not held a job in nearly 3 years and is on welfare) she had not adhered to current order for 16 months, only chose to see the kids one day a week. As soon as she got wind of his deployment she took him to court, was awarded the kids for the duration of the deployment and the based on his income they were going to award her $3300 a month in child support. There is no way we as a family could have afforded that amount and still have paid our own rent/bills. They plea bargained back and forth and agreed (he was forced or they would have went for the throat and got the $3300) on $2150 with the stipulation that upon his return they go to a week on week off and mother does not have to return to court and file an OSC to get more custody with the kids. Judge wanted to go back to the original order of mother seeing kids Monday-Friday and every other weekend, but that was based on us paying the full $3300, which as I said would have been impossible for us. He has recently asked about the custody situation on his return and mentioned that if they follow through with week on week off, that the support should be halved to $1075. She says the support is remaining the same, according to the court order, because 'she did him a favor by not taking the $3300 and accepted less'
CAN WE FIGHT THIS WHEN HE RETURNS? I mean they had orders in place, and she never adhered to them, we had piles of legit documention against her skills as a mother, (SARB reports from school...declarations from former friends/neighbors about drug use and men in the house on the last deployment they were married) none of which helped our case. Will he be able to file an OSC to get the amount lessened to a more fair amount of $1075 based on 50/50? I see nowhere in the court paperwork where it states that the support will remain at $2150 based on 50/50.
Sorry for being so long winded, this whole situation has been near and dear to my heart and very stressful as well, as I see the kids daily and the money is not being used for child support to it's fullest extent. I receive child support for my 2 children and it is 1/4 of what she recieves, and that is by my own choice, I will never take what I am 'entitled' to, I do not need that much money, as I work myself and make an income. California courts seem to favor the mother no matter what, regardless of their history as a parent and their lack of wanting to get a job. Why should the other parent have to make up that difference. It's ridiculous.