FriendlyFoe
Junior Member
Need some child support assistance
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Massachusetts
I'm in a bit of a situation with an 18 yr old ex of mine. We found out she was pregnant about 7 months ago or so. We agreed that we were going to have an abortion but she changed her mind when she found out we were having twins. This was an issue with me because I knew I wasn't ready and I knew I didn't want to be with her. But I stayed and tried and make it work throughout the pregnancy. Recently I broke it off with her because I couldn't pretend to be happy any longer. It may sound horrible but that's the truth. She cheated on me in the past and when I found out about more times I knew it was long over. The twins made this complicated because I stayed with her this whole time until about a month ago.
She brought up the idea of me not being on the birth certificate to avoid court. Would court mandated child support be avoided that way? I'm willing to help her financially but I don't want court bound.
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Massachusetts
I'm in a bit of a situation with an 18 yr old ex of mine. We found out she was pregnant about 7 months ago or so. We agreed that we were going to have an abortion but she changed her mind when she found out we were having twins. This was an issue with me because I knew I wasn't ready and I knew I didn't want to be with her. But I stayed and tried and make it work throughout the pregnancy. Recently I broke it off with her because I couldn't pretend to be happy any longer. It may sound horrible but that's the truth. She cheated on me in the past and when I found out about more times I knew it was long over. The twins made this complicated because I stayed with her this whole time until about a month ago.
She brought up the idea of me not being on the birth certificate to avoid court. Would court mandated child support be avoided that way? I'm willing to help her financially but I don't want court bound.
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