What is the name of your state? Wisconsin
Does anyone else have a situation like this? I really need advice.
BF's son (10) could not find his hat, and repeatedly said “my mom is going to kill me.”
BF's son could not find his shoes that he was told to bring back to his moms when we were at the hotel. He became very upset and cried, he said that he HAD to bring them back or his mom and step dad would be very mad and they will “kill” him.
BF's son became very upset because he said he needed to wear “dad's” clothes to go rollerblading. He insisted on changing into different pants so he would not rip or damage his “moms” pants. I tried to say that they were almost identical, and he shouldn’t have to worry about his clothes. He insisted and said he would be in so much trouble if he didn’t.
The children said that they have a separate area that they have to put their things from their dad’s house.
Children are told that the money that dad sends is being put into a college fund. They are always worried about money. They are told that they cannot get different kinds of food because it costs too much.
At the end of visits, the children suddenly get upset if they cannot find certain articles of clothing that they are instructed to bring back.
They do not get milk at school because “it is too expensive.”
Mother has instructed daughter to wear clothes that she (mom) does not like to her dad’s and leave them there. She said to wear something different back to her house.
Daughter was instructed to call dad and make sure that her dad brings a certain pair of jeans when we go for a visit. Her mom dialed the phone for her because she does not know our phone # (she's 8) She said her mom “really needs them back.” This was one of the only times that she has ever called her dad. This was last night.
On several occasions, BF's son is sent with a t-shirt in winter, and leaves the t-shirt and wears a sweater or long sleeve shirt back to his moms. I think she intentially makes them wear t shirts.
On a few occasions, we have sent extra clothes with them to their moms. Theses clothes were never sent back. The point is not that we are worried about which clothes are where, the issue is that they are not playing fair, they are stressing the kids out, and trying to make their dad look bad.
Daughter said that they have to wear the clothes that her mom picks out when she goes to her dad’s.
The children said that there is “no time” to call their dad. When the children are at our house, we let them call their mom whenever they ask, and do not interrupt their calls. Their mom is CONSTANTLY talking to them when we call.
We called to talk to them last night and their step dad said "you have two and a half Minutes." They kept interupting and saying it was bed time. (it wasn't)
Their new step dad is extremelly antaganistic and the mother will not speak to my BF. She wants her husband to do it. They are always putting the kids in the middle. His son gets extremelly upset about this.
We NEVER talk bad about their mom or Step dad. They told the kids that their mom does not want to talk to their dad, so she has step dad do it. We can tell that she doesnt write the letters, step dad does.
He is paying over 700 a month support. Is this INSAINE????? They are being told they don't have enough money ALL of the time.
Should any of this come up in a child support hearing, or is it too petty?
If anyone has had a situation like this and has any advice, I could really use some. My boyfriend and I are very upset.
Does anyone else have a situation like this? I really need advice.
BF's son (10) could not find his hat, and repeatedly said “my mom is going to kill me.”
BF's son could not find his shoes that he was told to bring back to his moms when we were at the hotel. He became very upset and cried, he said that he HAD to bring them back or his mom and step dad would be very mad and they will “kill” him.
BF's son became very upset because he said he needed to wear “dad's” clothes to go rollerblading. He insisted on changing into different pants so he would not rip or damage his “moms” pants. I tried to say that they were almost identical, and he shouldn’t have to worry about his clothes. He insisted and said he would be in so much trouble if he didn’t.
The children said that they have a separate area that they have to put their things from their dad’s house.
Children are told that the money that dad sends is being put into a college fund. They are always worried about money. They are told that they cannot get different kinds of food because it costs too much.
At the end of visits, the children suddenly get upset if they cannot find certain articles of clothing that they are instructed to bring back.
They do not get milk at school because “it is too expensive.”
Mother has instructed daughter to wear clothes that she (mom) does not like to her dad’s and leave them there. She said to wear something different back to her house.
Daughter was instructed to call dad and make sure that her dad brings a certain pair of jeans when we go for a visit. Her mom dialed the phone for her because she does not know our phone # (she's 8) She said her mom “really needs them back.” This was one of the only times that she has ever called her dad. This was last night.
On several occasions, BF's son is sent with a t-shirt in winter, and leaves the t-shirt and wears a sweater or long sleeve shirt back to his moms. I think she intentially makes them wear t shirts.
On a few occasions, we have sent extra clothes with them to their moms. Theses clothes were never sent back. The point is not that we are worried about which clothes are where, the issue is that they are not playing fair, they are stressing the kids out, and trying to make their dad look bad.
Daughter said that they have to wear the clothes that her mom picks out when she goes to her dad’s.
The children said that there is “no time” to call their dad. When the children are at our house, we let them call their mom whenever they ask, and do not interrupt their calls. Their mom is CONSTANTLY talking to them when we call.
We called to talk to them last night and their step dad said "you have two and a half Minutes." They kept interupting and saying it was bed time. (it wasn't)
Their new step dad is extremelly antaganistic and the mother will not speak to my BF. She wants her husband to do it. They are always putting the kids in the middle. His son gets extremelly upset about this.
We NEVER talk bad about their mom or Step dad. They told the kids that their mom does not want to talk to their dad, so she has step dad do it. We can tell that she doesnt write the letters, step dad does.
He is paying over 700 a month support. Is this INSAINE????? They are being told they don't have enough money ALL of the time.
Should any of this come up in a child support hearing, or is it too petty?
If anyone has had a situation like this and has any advice, I could really use some. My boyfriend and I are very upset.
