pb07142012
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ
My sons father and I have a 15 month old son. We are very civil and I foresee a great coparent/friendship in the future. We have agreed on child support and child custody but have one issue.
My sons father, we will call him Joe, wants our agreement to be documented with the courts. He is a very cautious guy who loves his son very much so I get why he wants it done and I do not have a problem with that. However, he works for his father and gets paid 40% of his income under the table. If you work out the support using the NJ guidelines, it's a $61/week difference based on what he reports he makes and what he actually makes.
He also wants to pay an attorney to do the paperwork for us. He does not feel a court appointed mediator or us doing the paperwork ourselves will cover everything a good paid attorney/mediator would.
So my question is, do we really even need a good paid attorney/mediator? Is there not some documentation out there that tells us everything to include in the agreement? If not, because we already agree, does the paid attorney even need to know our salaries? Can we just tell him/her what we agreed upon in regards to support and custody but need help covering things we might not be aware should be included?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
My sons father and I have a 15 month old son. We are very civil and I foresee a great coparent/friendship in the future. We have agreed on child support and child custody but have one issue.
My sons father, we will call him Joe, wants our agreement to be documented with the courts. He is a very cautious guy who loves his son very much so I get why he wants it done and I do not have a problem with that. However, he works for his father and gets paid 40% of his income under the table. If you work out the support using the NJ guidelines, it's a $61/week difference based on what he reports he makes and what he actually makes.
He also wants to pay an attorney to do the paperwork for us. He does not feel a court appointed mediator or us doing the paperwork ourselves will cover everything a good paid attorney/mediator would.
So my question is, do we really even need a good paid attorney/mediator? Is there not some documentation out there that tells us everything to include in the agreement? If not, because we already agree, does the paid attorney even need to know our salaries? Can we just tell him/her what we agreed upon in regards to support and custody but need help covering things we might not be aware should be included?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!