christinev82
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Tennessee
When my ex and I divorced he was ordered by the judge to pay child support (the judge actually jailed him briefly because of it). For a while now he's not paid anything, and when I would ask him or his parents for the monthly check they would either give me a check from THEIR (i.e. his parent's) bank account that would bounce due to insufficient funds (and then ignore all contact with me when I told them it bounced) or just tell me that he doesn't have it (our divorce said he was supposed to go through the child support bureau). I filed a complaint with the child support people and they tried to go after him, only he quit his job when they were going to garnish his wages for back child support. They're supposed to be taking him to court soon, the case worker told me but I don't know a date yet.
My question is, can I use this as grounds to try and get his parental rights terminated so I have full custody of the kids? He's not really involved with the kids, I mean he's never there to pick them up or drop them off and doesn't really involve himself in anything dealing with them (his parents basically raise the kids as his proxy for everything). I'm the one who does most of the work taking care of them. It's been at least like a year and a half since he's paid anything (and probably more, honestly I forget the last time he did) and from what the kids have said it's not that he doesn't have the money (he's buying other things) just he doesn't want to give me the money as we had a pretty messy marriage and divorce.
When my ex and I divorced he was ordered by the judge to pay child support (the judge actually jailed him briefly because of it). For a while now he's not paid anything, and when I would ask him or his parents for the monthly check they would either give me a check from THEIR (i.e. his parent's) bank account that would bounce due to insufficient funds (and then ignore all contact with me when I told them it bounced) or just tell me that he doesn't have it (our divorce said he was supposed to go through the child support bureau). I filed a complaint with the child support people and they tried to go after him, only he quit his job when they were going to garnish his wages for back child support. They're supposed to be taking him to court soon, the case worker told me but I don't know a date yet.
My question is, can I use this as grounds to try and get his parental rights terminated so I have full custody of the kids? He's not really involved with the kids, I mean he's never there to pick them up or drop them off and doesn't really involve himself in anything dealing with them (his parents basically raise the kids as his proxy for everything). I'm the one who does most of the work taking care of them. It's been at least like a year and a half since he's paid anything (and probably more, honestly I forget the last time he did) and from what the kids have said it's not that he doesn't have the money (he's buying other things) just he doesn't want to give me the money as we had a pretty messy marriage and divorce.
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