flhusker33
Junior Member
I live in Missouri. My boyfriend of 2 years has a 13 year old son. His mom has never worked. She says she has a medical condition, but this has not been diagnosed by anyone other than herself. The son acts somewhat like a ferrel animal, as he is "home-schooled" and never socialized. He often times does not get homeschooled because his mom doesn't feel good. He reads at a 4th grade level, at best. He often plays video games 12 hours per day. We try endlessly to read with him and to stress the importance, but she is the custodial parent because my boyfriend is active duty military and cannot therefore get custody. She doesn't harm the boy, except for educationally. The homeschool laws in MO are really loose so do we even have a leg to stand on? Also, she is supposed to pay 1/2 of all medical expenses not covered by insurance but since she has no job, she refuses to do so. We won't let the boy go without proper care and so we pay everything. We pay all clothing, all camps and academic needs (although it seems a waste) and we pay all medical. This child is quickly losing his ability to have a good future and we can't seem to get her to concede on anything. What can we do? A lawyer locally said the homeschooling is not worth fighting due to weak laws. This lady reads the textbooks to her kid and says he can just get waivers for reading in college. How nice...someone wants their child to be mediocre at best, and a problem for society? Uggh. SO frustrating. We want to help this child! Please help!