biggdaddy55
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Washington
Very long story, I will condense it as much as possible. Divorced for 7 years and have custody of both kids, although my son is now 22 and my daughter is 17. My daughter has always struggled with school, both the work itself and the social aspect. Two years ago her mom talked her into coming to live with her, with the promise of home school and a horse.
Now she wants to move back with me and my wife. I have discovered that the home schooling never really happened and she has missed out on an education. Her mom is extremely overbearing, screams and yells, very controlling, and has some mental issues.
I have no problem taking her back, but with missing two years of school I realize she can't go to regular high school. Our local alternative school has no openings.
Our parenting plan has me as the custodial parent, but my ex has joint decisions on schooling. She won't agree to online schooling or tutor. Because of several factors my daughter tests at a 6th to 7th grade level. The ex wants our daughter to stay with her and start schooling at the 6th grade level, and stay in school until she is 21. I think her idea is not only unpractical, but an attempt to control our daughter as long as possible.
So finally to my questions. Do I turn the ex in for truancy? ( Becca bill) Do I file to have the parenting plan amended so that the ex has no say? My ex doesn't work and has nothing better to do with her time than call schools, etc. to complain, bully and generally get her way.
I look forward to your response.
I did't realize that I posted in the child support thread. My mistake
Thank you
Very long story, I will condense it as much as possible. Divorced for 7 years and have custody of both kids, although my son is now 22 and my daughter is 17. My daughter has always struggled with school, both the work itself and the social aspect. Two years ago her mom talked her into coming to live with her, with the promise of home school and a horse.
Now she wants to move back with me and my wife. I have discovered that the home schooling never really happened and she has missed out on an education. Her mom is extremely overbearing, screams and yells, very controlling, and has some mental issues.
I have no problem taking her back, but with missing two years of school I realize she can't go to regular high school. Our local alternative school has no openings.
Our parenting plan has me as the custodial parent, but my ex has joint decisions on schooling. She won't agree to online schooling or tutor. Because of several factors my daughter tests at a 6th to 7th grade level. The ex wants our daughter to stay with her and start schooling at the 6th grade level, and stay in school until she is 21. I think her idea is not only unpractical, but an attempt to control our daughter as long as possible.
So finally to my questions. Do I turn the ex in for truancy? ( Becca bill) Do I file to have the parenting plan amended so that the ex has no say? My ex doesn't work and has nothing better to do with her time than call schools, etc. to complain, bully and generally get her way.
I look forward to your response.
I did't realize that I posted in the child support thread. My mistake
Thank you
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