JRINGO1111 said:
Sorry about the font......geez is that so important when someone has a cry for help?
ok...I had a court order for 250.00 a month. I waqs fully paid up until my child was 6 yrs old ....I then lost my job...and for the next 6 years I paid what I could. never less than 100.00/month. At the age of 12....I got a protective order of temporary custody due to the sadistic treatment of my child by her mother. Her teachers and school nurce testified. for the next 6 years I had total custody****************************so....I paid full child support for six years...then partial support for the next 6 years.....then she lived with me for the rest of her minor years**************..now my wife is sueing me for 17 years of back child support and the attorney general is going with her**************...so ...any advice?
At the time that you gained custody, was the court order modified?
If not, it could be a big problem, without the modification you would be charged the CS every month, and still TECHNICALLY owe it. Obviously you do owe some arrears for the amounts not paid during the last 6 yrs before gaining custody, but you may be able to do something about any CS charged to you after custody.
Another poster brought up a good point, the defense of laches. You can also ask an attorney about the possibilty of YOU filing for CS from HER, for the time you had custody (if she didn't pay any CS). It may not be possible to actually get support from her, but it can sure be a good bargaining tool.