mrssmith51
Junior Member
Indiana
8 + years ago my then fiancée had an affair with someone. She became pregnant although it was unclear if the father was her fiancée or mine. After the birth of her child she and her fiancée got married and he assumed responsibility for the child and signed the paternity affidavit. My fiancée and I ended up getting married 4 years ago. She contacts him about twice a year and tried to follow him and I on Facebook. We continually block her and her numerous cell phone numbers. Apparently she is now "about to go through a divorce" and wants a paternity strictly for her peace of mind. Then she says that she will come after child support. Then she says she wants to keep it out of the courts. She has lied numerous times in the past saying she had a test done from a toothbrush. Then it was a strand of hair. First is was positive that her husband was the dad. Then it was inconclusive. And now her story is the test was never done. We have repeatedly told her either have a paternity test or leave us alone. She continued to refuse because she didn't want her husband to know. Now the story is that he has known all along. We need to know if he (her husband) signed that paternity affidavit assuming legal responsibility for the child why does she need a paternity test from my husband? I've tried talking to her but she turns it into a pity party and wants to rehash the past. Her husband won't be able to prove fraud since I have texts where she states she has told him and he chose to ignore it. I also have texts that she says his family even knows. So can she come after my husband? I feel like this is all a ploy for his attention like it has always been and in her delusional mind she thinks he will want to be with her. Does her husband have to sign away rights in order for my husband to be responsible for the child?
8 + years ago my then fiancée had an affair with someone. She became pregnant although it was unclear if the father was her fiancée or mine. After the birth of her child she and her fiancée got married and he assumed responsibility for the child and signed the paternity affidavit. My fiancée and I ended up getting married 4 years ago. She contacts him about twice a year and tried to follow him and I on Facebook. We continually block her and her numerous cell phone numbers. Apparently she is now "about to go through a divorce" and wants a paternity strictly for her peace of mind. Then she says that she will come after child support. Then she says she wants to keep it out of the courts. She has lied numerous times in the past saying she had a test done from a toothbrush. Then it was a strand of hair. First is was positive that her husband was the dad. Then it was inconclusive. And now her story is the test was never done. We have repeatedly told her either have a paternity test or leave us alone. She continued to refuse because she didn't want her husband to know. Now the story is that he has known all along. We need to know if he (her husband) signed that paternity affidavit assuming legal responsibility for the child why does she need a paternity test from my husband? I've tried talking to her but she turns it into a pity party and wants to rehash the past. Her husband won't be able to prove fraud since I have texts where she states she has told him and he chose to ignore it. I also have texts that she says his family even knows. So can she come after my husband? I feel like this is all a ploy for his attention like it has always been and in her delusional mind she thinks he will want to be with her. Does her husband have to sign away rights in order for my husband to be responsible for the child?