muskies133
Junior Member
My Ex-Girlfriend (legally separated and divorced while we were dating) Just had a baby. She cheated on me with her ex-husband in the end of Jan or begining of Feb and the baby might not be mine (he was small indicating he may have been a month early). Durring pregnancy I found out she cheated and was telling both her ex and I each that we were the father. I can't afford a DNA test and am affraid (based on hearing stories) of losing half of my wages to support. I also cannot afford an attorny; I have too much debt as it is. She was being somewhat civil after I moved out and broke off our relationship, but her mother has been pushing me away making sure I cannot see the child. The ex-girlfriend said I could visit and was sorry that her mom didn't call me about being in labor (we were trying to be friends for the kids sake). I went to the Hospital after being told I could visit and was told by staff I couldn't visit in addition to that I recieved a nasty message from her mother to leave her alone. Other than some normal arguments and mean things being said about the lying and cheating when it was discovered there hasn't been anything out of the ordinary given the circumstances. She did and still does smoke marajuana regulary durring the entire pregnancy (she quite for a while before the pregnancy because I wanted her to) and spends about $400 a month on that junk. Why should I have to support her if her money goes to drugs? What should I do? What are my legal options, what could I be facing legally and financially?
State of OHIO...
State of OHIO...
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