Napoleonesco
Junior Member
Michigan
I've had custody of our 12 year old daughter since March of 2009, after she lost custody due to drug use and instability. I still owe my ex-wife arrears from when she had custody but she has paid me no child support during this time, nor does she have a child support order in place.
She has now gotten herself together (She's receiving SSD) and is threatening to take me back to court for custody and still keep me on the hook for $15,000 in arrears that has only gone that high because of interest. She demands that I hand over the $20,000 my daughter got from social security or she's going to take me to court for custody. Is there a way my arrears can be offset due to her not paying me anything in the five years I've had custody or am I stuck with the bill? Is there anything a lawyer can do for me?
I've had custody of our 12 year old daughter since March of 2009, after she lost custody due to drug use and instability. I still owe my ex-wife arrears from when she had custody but she has paid me no child support during this time, nor does she have a child support order in place.
She has now gotten herself together (She's receiving SSD) and is threatening to take me back to court for custody and still keep me on the hook for $15,000 in arrears that has only gone that high because of interest. She demands that I hand over the $20,000 my daughter got from social security or she's going to take me to court for custody. Is there a way my arrears can be offset due to her not paying me anything in the five years I've had custody or am I stuck with the bill? Is there anything a lawyer can do for me?
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