sgermain28
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Minnesota.
My 8 year old daughter's grandmother (her dad's mother) offered to pay me $20,000.00 to stop child support completely and erase his arrears. The total amount he owes me is $27,000.00 in arrears and he is suppose to pay me $337.00 a month.
He used to live in Wisconsin and moved to Florida because there is a warrant out for his arrest in Wisconsin as well as Minnesota. He has no license or car insurance and cannot get a job anywhere because they take all of his money and has nothing to live off of. He has a lien on his car as well.
His mother has paid for everything for her granddaughter from the start and she always goes to her grandmother's house and has never stayed with her father. Now she wants to pay me off so her son can have a live she said. He is 51 years old and has nothing and has not had a full time job in 6 or 7 years.
I am wondering if I should take her up on her offer but not sure if it will back fire on me later. I know I will never see the $27,000.00 but was wondering if I should have something in writing about if he received an inheritance or lottery or something. Or at least have him pay $50.00 a month.
There is also an order for parenting time that I set up in 2013. He is suppose to take her every other weekend and one day a week which he does not follow at all. His mother will email giving me a date as to when they would like to take her and agree on it. They pick her up at 3:40 PM from school on Fridays and bring her back at 3:30 PM on Sundays even though in the court papers they are supposed to bring her back at 6:00 PM. But again it is her grandparents bringing her back not her dad. They live in Chippewa Falls, WI, about 2 hours away from me. There are no grandparent court papers but I am just doing this so my daughter can see and know her grandma and grandpa.
I want to do the right thing but do not want to get the shafted in the end.
Any advice would be grateful.
My 8 year old daughter's grandmother (her dad's mother) offered to pay me $20,000.00 to stop child support completely and erase his arrears. The total amount he owes me is $27,000.00 in arrears and he is suppose to pay me $337.00 a month.
He used to live in Wisconsin and moved to Florida because there is a warrant out for his arrest in Wisconsin as well as Minnesota. He has no license or car insurance and cannot get a job anywhere because they take all of his money and has nothing to live off of. He has a lien on his car as well.
His mother has paid for everything for her granddaughter from the start and she always goes to her grandmother's house and has never stayed with her father. Now she wants to pay me off so her son can have a live she said. He is 51 years old and has nothing and has not had a full time job in 6 or 7 years.
I am wondering if I should take her up on her offer but not sure if it will back fire on me later. I know I will never see the $27,000.00 but was wondering if I should have something in writing about if he received an inheritance or lottery or something. Or at least have him pay $50.00 a month.
There is also an order for parenting time that I set up in 2013. He is suppose to take her every other weekend and one day a week which he does not follow at all. His mother will email giving me a date as to when they would like to take her and agree on it. They pick her up at 3:40 PM from school on Fridays and bring her back at 3:30 PM on Sundays even though in the court papers they are supposed to bring her back at 6:00 PM. But again it is her grandparents bringing her back not her dad. They live in Chippewa Falls, WI, about 2 hours away from me. There are no grandparent court papers but I am just doing this so my daughter can see and know her grandma and grandpa.
I want to do the right thing but do not want to get the shafted in the end.
Any advice would be grateful.