Paying child support when the child lives with you

[saralee2010]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? North Carolina

My boyfriend is paying child support for his son that lives with us. the mother lives in Kansas but is not taking the proper steps to have the dad taken off of childsupport. what can he do? i am sick of it. it is starting to affect our relationship. the mom is a liar! what can the dad do and if he does not do anything.. what can i do? (besides the obvious.. and get rid of him)

 

[Isis1]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? North Carolina

My boyfriend is paying child support for his son that lives with us. the mother lives in Kansas but is not taking the proper steps to have the dad taken off of childsupport. what can he do? i am sick of it. it is starting to affect our relationship. the mom is a liar! what can the dad do and if he does not do anything.. what can i do? (besides the obvious.. and get rid of him)

get rid of him. if he wants to pay support while the child is living with him, that's his business. he doesn't have to do a darn thing just cuz you want him to.

 

[Antigone*]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? North Carolina

My boyfriend is paying child support for his son that lives with us. the mother lives in Kansas but is not taking the proper steps to have the dad taken off of childsupport. what can he do? i am sick of it. it is starting to affect our relationship. the mom is a liar! what can the dad do and if he does not do anything.. what can i do? (besides the obvious.. and get rid of him)

What your boyfriend does with regards to his child and his support is none of your business.

This has absodanglutely nothing to do with you at all.

 

[CourtClerk]

Generally, I would advise people who are "sick of it" when it comes to anything pertaining to a boyfriend.... they leave. You shouldn't have to put up with anything that you're sick of. He's not family, he's your friend. You don't like your friend's situation, remove yourself from it.

 

[saralee2010]

well the issue is that we live together and his son lives with us.

 

[Isis1]

well the issue is that we live together and his son lives with us.

then move out. it's that simple. it still doesn't involve you. you have no legal right to stop the support. you have no legal right to sue mom for support. even if you were married to the jerk that is spending money that he should be using to take you out and buy you new shoes and designer bags!!

 

[Silverplum]

well the issue is that we live together and his son lives with us.

Naw, that's not the issue.

 

[Antigone*]

well the issue is that we live together and his son lives with us.

The son doesn't live with "US" ~ the son lives with his father.

 

[saralee2010]

ok these are all good responses and all are the obvious thing i shoule do instead of stressing my self about it. thanks

 

[saralee2010]

no... we all live in the same house. actually its my house and the father and son live with me.

 

[Isis1]

no... we all live in the same house. actually its my house and the father and son live with me.

then serve dad with a notice of eviction.

 

[Silverplum]

ok these are all good responses and all are the obvious thing i shoule do instead of stressing my self about it. thanks

no... we all live in the same house. actually its my house and the father and son live with me.

Still doesn't make it your problem, or your business.

 

[saralee2010]

right... i will just remove myself from the situation and them from my home. that will solve it all. thanks for the responses

 

[Silverplum]

right... i will just remove myself from the situation and them from my home. that will solve it all. thanks for the responses

That's amazing.

You're welcome.

 

[Zigner]

right... i will just remove myself from the situation and them from my home. that will solve it all. thanks for the responses

Congratulations.