I recently found out I have a child in Utah. The state wants $600 a month in child support plus add the child to my health insurance. To them its all numbers, but if I have to pay that I won't be able to live. I won't be able to have a family of my own with my fiance or pay for plane tickets to see my daughter that lives in another state that I have a wonderful relationship with. This child was raised by another man, I have no connection. The only reason I know about him is because his mother wanted me to sign away rights so that her husband could adopt. Now they're getting a divorce and I have no options. He was born before they were married so there's nothing that can be done that way. If my fiance leaves me over this. I won't be able to go on. She's my life and I'm panicking. She knows about everything, I haven't hid anything. She doesn't know if she wants to be with me now. If she leaves, I'll lose her, our house, and my job since I have nowhere to go and would have to move in with family in another state. I would never be able to pay all the child support... I'm so lost
