6 months so im thinking this is a money issue i send them a the money to cover whats in arrears they will make it all go away just wondering i mean i think it will cost them more to extradite me than what i owe.
There's a basic disconnection here between you and the advisors, including me.
You want to get/stay out of trouble. We aren't all that interested in that part.
We think you should pay your child support. (We also think you should begin the legal process available to you, but that's a second matter.) That's what we find most important in your story.
So, since
you want out of trouble and
we want you to pay your support obligation, I vote you pay the support and get out/stay out of trouble.
Easy solution, everyone is happy.