in 1996 my wife and her boyfriend had a child, the boyfriend signed off on the child in 1996 and fled the area.
My wife and her mother took partial custody each of the child while the verbal agreement was for her mother to raise the child as she was too young to do so at 16 years old. Her mother also was very financially stable.
In 1997 I met my wife and in 1998 my wife and I got married, things were very financially rough for us up until 2007 when I found a job making 5 times what I did in previous years.
My wife and I had 5 kids along the way of our own.
Her mother got laid off from work in 2004 and then disabled from another job, her father is on disability as well for his whole life. Both are more then able to work but choose to abuse the system.
A week ago my wife's mother decided to tell the child that the real mother is my wife a secret they have kept for a long time without my wife's consent.
At this point in my wife's eye's she is not the mother because she did not raise the child, she also does not want to raise the child as we have 5 of our own and financially we cannot support anymore family members.
We don't know the best options but her mother is trying her best to get money from us because she is financially strapped.
We want to know how we can release my wife from any financial obligations at this point and what can exactly her mother do?
Remember this is NOT my child it's my wife's and she does not work she's a full-time mom for our kids.
My wife and her mother took partial custody each of the child while the verbal agreement was for her mother to raise the child as she was too young to do so at 16 years old. Her mother also was very financially stable.
In 1997 I met my wife and in 1998 my wife and I got married, things were very financially rough for us up until 2007 when I found a job making 5 times what I did in previous years.
My wife and I had 5 kids along the way of our own.
Her mother got laid off from work in 2004 and then disabled from another job, her father is on disability as well for his whole life. Both are more then able to work but choose to abuse the system.
A week ago my wife's mother decided to tell the child that the real mother is my wife a secret they have kept for a long time without my wife's consent.
At this point in my wife's eye's she is not the mother because she did not raise the child, she also does not want to raise the child as we have 5 of our own and financially we cannot support anymore family members.
We don't know the best options but her mother is trying her best to get money from us because she is financially strapped.
We want to know how we can release my wife from any financial obligations at this point and what can exactly her mother do?
Remember this is NOT my child it's my wife's and she does not work she's a full-time mom for our kids.