What is the name of your state? Virginia.
Hi - here's my situation - it's a little unusual. I have a 1 month old daughter - never married and not on great terms with my ex although we both want the best for my daughter.
I make 70k she makes 50k. No issue with child support at 1k per month. We are trying to avoid going to court but now it looks unlikely. Here is what her dad proposed tonight (she wont speak to me anymore b/c she is too emotionally involved)
Originally she wanted 1700 per month in child care b/c her mom was going to watch our daughter - I have no prob with that except my share combined wtih support is over 1/2 my net income - i could not surrive. I offered $1100 per month and they said they would accept that but i would only get to see her for 4 hours supervised every two weeks (8 hours per month) - theres no way im accepting that so it looks like the courts for us.
Her dad did say that I could pay nothing and not have any rights to see her - I would never accept this but I wonder if this is even an option? or was it a set up to see if I would take that deal and they could hold it against me when we went to court.
Basically I'm willing to pay a reasonable amount in child care with reasonable visitation rights - they are basing my child care (not support) payment with how much time I will be able to see my daughter which is ludicrous.
please! any advice?
Hi - here's my situation - it's a little unusual. I have a 1 month old daughter - never married and not on great terms with my ex although we both want the best for my daughter.
I make 70k she makes 50k. No issue with child support at 1k per month. We are trying to avoid going to court but now it looks unlikely. Here is what her dad proposed tonight (she wont speak to me anymore b/c she is too emotionally involved)
Originally she wanted 1700 per month in child care b/c her mom was going to watch our daughter - I have no prob with that except my share combined wtih support is over 1/2 my net income - i could not surrive. I offered $1100 per month and they said they would accept that but i would only get to see her for 4 hours supervised every two weeks (8 hours per month) - theres no way im accepting that so it looks like the courts for us.
Her dad did say that I could pay nothing and not have any rights to see her - I would never accept this but I wonder if this is even an option? or was it a set up to see if I would take that deal and they could hold it against me when we went to court.
Basically I'm willing to pay a reasonable amount in child care with reasonable visitation rights - they are basing my child care (not support) payment with how much time I will be able to see my daughter which is ludicrous.
please! any advice?