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Currently, my ex husband and I do not have court ordered support. Just an amount that we have come up with that he pays directly to me. This amount is roughly $200 less than the state minimum for the last known salary that I have for him from about 5 years ago.
I consulted with an attorney last summer about having official custody and support orders drawn up, but my ex asked that we "deal with this between the two of us." So far, I have complied. But something is telling me while I have no reason to think he would ever stop paying support, I also thought that we would be married forever. This is enough to make me realize I'm not always too good at predicting the future.
Also, when I consulted this attorney, he had asked me to get recent pay stubs and/or copies of ex's tax returns for the last couple of years from ex to have a current income amount. He did not provide them, so we only went on the amount from time we divorced. So, I'm certain that number was wrong.
Would it be wise to possibly stir up alot of anger and have an order for support drawn up? Or trust that he'll always do as he says? Considering that if always did as promised I might still be married to him, I think the answer is obvious. Just wanting second opinions, I guess. And, do they automatically base it on our incomes. Or can we decide on the amount and have it written up like that?
Currently, my ex husband and I do not have court ordered support. Just an amount that we have come up with that he pays directly to me. This amount is roughly $200 less than the state minimum for the last known salary that I have for him from about 5 years ago.
I consulted with an attorney last summer about having official custody and support orders drawn up, but my ex asked that we "deal with this between the two of us." So far, I have complied. But something is telling me while I have no reason to think he would ever stop paying support, I also thought that we would be married forever. This is enough to make me realize I'm not always too good at predicting the future.
Also, when I consulted this attorney, he had asked me to get recent pay stubs and/or copies of ex's tax returns for the last couple of years from ex to have a current income amount. He did not provide them, so we only went on the amount from time we divorced. So, I'm certain that number was wrong.
Would it be wise to possibly stir up alot of anger and have an order for support drawn up? Or trust that he'll always do as he says? Considering that if always did as promised I might still be married to him, I think the answer is obvious. Just wanting second opinions, I guess. And, do they automatically base it on our incomes. Or can we decide on the amount and have it written up like that?