motosk8er2
Junior Member
hi, i am in desperate need of help regarding my child and childsupport.
A little backround, I live in NY and i am 20 years old. My ex got pregnant, we didnt know yet, she left me for my best friend, after she found out she was pregnant he split and i came back for some reason. We tried to make it work but she is an evil person and a heroin addict. I had to leave her, i couldnt risk my own life, and i knew i had to get custody to save my daughters life. When she was born she had to be rushed to a different hospital because she was going threw withdrawals, and had trouble breathing. CPS got involved but she got out of it by flashing her prescriptions. I had a job at ********** and made about $400 a month, i went to court for child support and gave them my pay stubs, they knew how much i made, and i got a bill saying i must pay $780 a month. that was 2 weeks ago, i lost my job about a week after that due to this and now i dont make anything, nor do i get to see my daughter, and they are sending me threatening messages. I just got a new letter in today and somehow they said i now owe $12,000!! What can i do? For the past week I tried to tell them i lost my job but no one would listen, or would just say they where transfering me and than hang up. are they going to arrest me? I feel so helpless, i want to see my baby, and i want to support her but i cant even afford to buy gas to drive to the court, or to apply for jobs, but i am doing applications online. I really need some advice, can the really arrest me because i lost my job and i cant pay that right now? How can i get someone to listenn to me, and tell them i lost my job? I just keep getting bills and threats but when i try to respond and explain they ignore me. I cant take it anymore, its killing me. Ive always done right, im the good guy who gets taken advantage of and i got involved with a bad apple, and now there gonna arrest me? My ex doesnt spend a dime on my daughter, i bought her everything she needed, and now i lost my job and she wants more money to feed her addiction. Please give me any advice or info, im losing it......thank you in advance.
A little backround, I live in NY and i am 20 years old. My ex got pregnant, we didnt know yet, she left me for my best friend, after she found out she was pregnant he split and i came back for some reason. We tried to make it work but she is an evil person and a heroin addict. I had to leave her, i couldnt risk my own life, and i knew i had to get custody to save my daughters life. When she was born she had to be rushed to a different hospital because she was going threw withdrawals, and had trouble breathing. CPS got involved but she got out of it by flashing her prescriptions. I had a job at ********** and made about $400 a month, i went to court for child support and gave them my pay stubs, they knew how much i made, and i got a bill saying i must pay $780 a month. that was 2 weeks ago, i lost my job about a week after that due to this and now i dont make anything, nor do i get to see my daughter, and they are sending me threatening messages. I just got a new letter in today and somehow they said i now owe $12,000!! What can i do? For the past week I tried to tell them i lost my job but no one would listen, or would just say they where transfering me and than hang up. are they going to arrest me? I feel so helpless, i want to see my baby, and i want to support her but i cant even afford to buy gas to drive to the court, or to apply for jobs, but i am doing applications online. I really need some advice, can the really arrest me because i lost my job and i cant pay that right now? How can i get someone to listenn to me, and tell them i lost my job? I just keep getting bills and threats but when i try to respond and explain they ignore me. I cant take it anymore, its killing me. Ive always done right, im the good guy who gets taken advantage of and i got involved with a bad apple, and now there gonna arrest me? My ex doesnt spend a dime on my daughter, i bought her everything she needed, and now i lost my job and she wants more money to feed her addiction. Please give me any advice or info, im losing it......thank you in advance.