What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
* Wife and mother of 5 in the midst of a 3+ year long divorce from a non-cooperative STBX
* STBX has sold business and lied about his job status for approximately 1 year (claimed to still own business)
* STBX now has low-paying job
* STBX claims to have given away proceeds of business as cash gifts to homeless with no supporting records
* STBX suffered a serious battle with Cancer and has recovered, spending time with new girlfriend, purchasing a new vehicle with cash and giving away cash
* STBX has reduced child support for his 4 children currently living in the marital residence with mother
* STBX has taken all marital funds and accounts and refuses any advance distribution
* Mother raised 5 children and three stepchildren from STBX previous marriage or the last 19 years
* Mother did not pursue masters/doctorate after BS (Psychology) in order to raise kids
* STBX hid all finances throughout the marriage from spouse and has known accounts that he and his attorney have not disclosed
* STBX has refused to cooperate over 3+ years of divorce process and found to be in contempt for refusal to provide financial documents
* STBX has caused $40K+ in attorneys fees for spouse and continues non-cooperation tactic to bankrupt spouse forcing her to leave marital residence
* Mother is now out of money and credit lines are at their limit. Bills are past due and food has run out.
* Mother has boyfriend now who can possibly share a residence purchase if assets are released
* Attorneys best effort to date has resulted in a 40/60 split of marital assets in favor of STBX, and no alimony despite long time spent out of workforce raising kids and foregoing a masters/doctorate.
I am interested in starting a dialogue on possibilities that I have not considered, and what to expect from PA courts.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Frustrated Mom
* Wife and mother of 5 in the midst of a 3+ year long divorce from a non-cooperative STBX
* STBX has sold business and lied about his job status for approximately 1 year (claimed to still own business)
* STBX now has low-paying job
* STBX claims to have given away proceeds of business as cash gifts to homeless with no supporting records
* STBX suffered a serious battle with Cancer and has recovered, spending time with new girlfriend, purchasing a new vehicle with cash and giving away cash
* STBX has reduced child support for his 4 children currently living in the marital residence with mother
* STBX has taken all marital funds and accounts and refuses any advance distribution
* Mother raised 5 children and three stepchildren from STBX previous marriage or the last 19 years
* Mother did not pursue masters/doctorate after BS (Psychology) in order to raise kids
* STBX hid all finances throughout the marriage from spouse and has known accounts that he and his attorney have not disclosed
* STBX has refused to cooperate over 3+ years of divorce process and found to be in contempt for refusal to provide financial documents
* STBX has caused $40K+ in attorneys fees for spouse and continues non-cooperation tactic to bankrupt spouse forcing her to leave marital residence
* Mother is now out of money and credit lines are at their limit. Bills are past due and food has run out.
* Mother has boyfriend now who can possibly share a residence purchase if assets are released
* Attorneys best effort to date has resulted in a 40/60 split of marital assets in favor of STBX, and no alimony despite long time spent out of workforce raising kids and foregoing a masters/doctorate.
I am interested in starting a dialogue on possibilities that I have not considered, and what to expect from PA courts.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Frustrated Mom