What is the name of your state?
New England
Hello , I"m new to this so hopefully I do this right. I'm the stepmom of two girls that live in another state. My husband and his ex had an ugly split, about 6 years ago. And is at a constant battle with her just to SEE his kids. When he was finally granted his visiation, she picked up and moved out of state. She has sole custody so can she do that? Doesn't matter now anyway it's been 3 years. But from the time she moved he wrote the kids called them sent gifts and asked to bring them back to our state on vacations, she always said no. We even offered to pay her way also. So it was pretty clear that her move was really not to benefit herself, but to keep the kids away from him. Long story short, we get them one month in the summer WE pay all airfare, and pay her child support durning our visiation. But also in the court order it said that she keeps the health insurance on the kids but out of pocket he's to pay 40% and she pay the rest (of what her insurance doesn't cover) She emailed a few months ago that we would have some bills coming our way, but she hasn't sent them, if she doesn't send these will i be in contempt of court for them not being paid?
Also, i had my child support lower because of me paying airfare, i offered to pay for that to have it lower cause she claimed paying 215.00 a week per kids for daycare. Which made my child support to be around 250.00-300.00 a week she agreed on 165.00.
I'm I allowed to know who's watching my children? And how much it's costing her? I belive now she has a babysitter, I'm not asking for personal info on the person , but i would like to know the hours and how much they charge, where she has sole custody is that just none on my business? Hope Not.
Thanks for you input.
New England
Hello , I"m new to this so hopefully I do this right. I'm the stepmom of two girls that live in another state. My husband and his ex had an ugly split, about 6 years ago. And is at a constant battle with her just to SEE his kids. When he was finally granted his visiation, she picked up and moved out of state. She has sole custody so can she do that? Doesn't matter now anyway it's been 3 years. But from the time she moved he wrote the kids called them sent gifts and asked to bring them back to our state on vacations, she always said no. We even offered to pay her way also. So it was pretty clear that her move was really not to benefit herself, but to keep the kids away from him. Long story short, we get them one month in the summer WE pay all airfare, and pay her child support durning our visiation. But also in the court order it said that she keeps the health insurance on the kids but out of pocket he's to pay 40% and she pay the rest (of what her insurance doesn't cover) She emailed a few months ago that we would have some bills coming our way, but she hasn't sent them, if she doesn't send these will i be in contempt of court for them not being paid?
Also, i had my child support lower because of me paying airfare, i offered to pay for that to have it lower cause she claimed paying 215.00 a week per kids for daycare. Which made my child support to be around 250.00-300.00 a week she agreed on 165.00.
I'm I allowed to know who's watching my children? And how much it's costing her? I belive now she has a babysitter, I'm not asking for personal info on the person , but i would like to know the hours and how much they charge, where she has sole custody is that just none on my business? Hope Not.
Thanks for you input.
