
Originally Posted by
DangeloJ
What is the name of your state? Texas (them) Me (NJ)
Divorced 12.5 years ago, son AGE 13. Ordered to pay support in the divorce. This state had no automatic means of payment. Paid all payments through auto deduction from my check and later with personal checks. 9 Months ago Texas A.G. put on my credit report that I'm in arreas the amount times 13 years. Gathered 13 years of proof and sends it in to Texas A.G. Son's mother denies all but some payments (stark lie) to the case worker. Case work gives her 1 week to disprove her signature on over 100 check copies. She never responds. Now I pay Texas A.G. the support each month (from the 12 year old order!). 3 months later I get a letter for 3k in Overages since I've periodically increased for support over the years without any kind of modification. I'm still fixing the garnishment they did to my home state by mistake.
During a recent telephone calls things got nasty. She says she will take me to court (for more support). She'll get substaintial increase because I make substantially more now.. no problem it's the law. She will blow this money on everything but my son but again it's the Law.
My questions:
If I pay the insurance premium how can I get her to be responsible for the co-pays?
(This is someone who does not pay bills. I dont want Bills in my name going to her house. They will NEVER get paid.)
What is a Texas OAG modification process like:
-How long does it take for them to process one of these?
-Along with giving up the documents they will want should I show up to court?
A plane ticket will costs hundreds but I dont want it to cost me more in the long run.