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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Texas
HELLO! this is my first post/thread. hope its not repetatvie.
Quick facts:
- NCP minor, 17, when arrangement made so his mother on order too
- started out CS w/1505 arrears and 250/mo @ 12% on arrears
- currently ordered to pay $375/mo
- i have a spreadsheet, but basically he owes $22k
- last payment was 16mo ago
- since we split, i can count the times he has visited on my hands
- last visit was over 3 yrs ago
- he does tiling/skilled trade type jobs under the table for cash and address is 'unknown'
- NCP had another child 1 1/2 yrs ago
- she (the NEW ex) just told me they are no longer together and wants advice
Questions:
- i have tried to calculate exactly how much is owed to me with arreaers and interest but it never adds up to what NCO owes. my 'contract' states 12% dated dec 01. i heard laws in TX changed to 6% in jan 02. can my interest rate be changed w/o informing me?
- also is interested calculated on just arrears or is past due interest part of arrears?
- NCP's NEW ex now wants CS. will my case be modified automatically?
- I read she will get 20% of what is left after MY CS is deducted from his net pay (if he were actually working). is this correct?
- if not, how is it calculated?
- i also read some stuff that if he 'hides' for long enough, the SOL? will run out and he wont owe his CS anymore?!?? and then i will be SOL! that is wrong, right?
i have other questions but they deal with this plus involuntary termination of paternity rights (i have an adopter, my hubby), concern about custody in the event of my death when i have 2 other children by hubby for total of 3, grandparents rights (none in TX i think/hope), ex-MomInLaw didnt show up to court dates when served bc NCP not served bc couldnt be found.
if anyone wants to answer those too, GREAT! if not, i'll post in proper threads!
THANK YOU FOR ANY HELP/ADVICE!
amie What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
HELLO! this is my first post/thread. hope its not repetatvie.
Quick facts:
- NCP minor, 17, when arrangement made so his mother on order too
- started out CS w/1505 arrears and 250/mo @ 12% on arrears
- currently ordered to pay $375/mo
- i have a spreadsheet, but basically he owes $22k
- last payment was 16mo ago
- since we split, i can count the times he has visited on my hands
- last visit was over 3 yrs ago
- he does tiling/skilled trade type jobs under the table for cash and address is 'unknown'
- NCP had another child 1 1/2 yrs ago
- she (the NEW ex) just told me they are no longer together and wants advice
Questions:
- i have tried to calculate exactly how much is owed to me with arreaers and interest but it never adds up to what NCO owes. my 'contract' states 12% dated dec 01. i heard laws in TX changed to 6% in jan 02. can my interest rate be changed w/o informing me?
- also is interested calculated on just arrears or is past due interest part of arrears?
- NCP's NEW ex now wants CS. will my case be modified automatically?
- I read she will get 20% of what is left after MY CS is deducted from his net pay (if he were actually working). is this correct?
- if not, how is it calculated?
- i also read some stuff that if he 'hides' for long enough, the SOL? will run out and he wont owe his CS anymore?!?? and then i will be SOL! that is wrong, right?
i have other questions but they deal with this plus involuntary termination of paternity rights (i have an adopter, my hubby), concern about custody in the event of my death when i have 2 other children by hubby for total of 3, grandparents rights (none in TX i think/hope), ex-MomInLaw didnt show up to court dates when served bc NCP not served bc couldnt be found.
if anyone wants to answer those too, GREAT! if not, i'll post in proper threads!
THANK YOU FOR ANY HELP/ADVICE!
amie What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?