Ughhhh this has got the be the rudest statement.
Lets see, if the man does not work the child so called child(ren) "starves to death" because mommy is not getting her support check. Then Daddy will go to jail because he has not paid, because he lost his job so he could see his child. Its a no win situation for the father. Because of his job he is unable to juggle work and visitation. Dah! Like this situation has NEVER happened to ANYONE is their life????????Right????
If he chose visitation over work and lost his job, YOU PEOPLE WOULD BE CALLING HIM A DEADBEAT.
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Thanks topshelf.. it's nice to know that some people out there realize that non custodial parents are in a no win situation. It doesn't matter what we do or what good intentions we have, we will always be looked down upon. I have 3 children. 2 of the mothers were on birth control and I have an active part in 2 of thier lives, the ones whose mothers don't make it impossible. As far there being more to the story... I have a felony car theft from when I was 18 years old. That was 8 years ago. I served my time and I am a law abiding citizen. I was stupid and young and made a stupid mistake. She used that against me and made up a bunch of lies. The courts looked at me - a felon - and weren't exactly on my side.