What is the name of your state?MN
Hi, I need to file a response to a Motion to modify support and have a few questions. I appreciate any advice. I am the Custodial parent and the NCP is going to court to get his support suspended or lowered as he is on unemployment, he is married and his wife works 3 jobs. I myself am not employed as I just had a baby recently and was not working before that since Sep 2003. I did not go back to try to get more when I lost my job and don't get why he would. He also hired an attorney, even though he is stating financial hardship, and wants me to pay the attorneys fees. In MN we have In Forma Pauperis, basically you can apply to get all filing fees etc. waved if you are on public assistance and or as the court sees fit based on your income. One can file these motions simply by downloading forms and filling them out. Will he get attorneys fees awarded? Should I bring up the In Forma Pauperis in court? He is also wanting to be reimbursed for daycare expenses he paid for the past three years, alleging that I didn't tell him that I wasn't paying them when in reality he was fully aware that I had put our child in two different non profit programs ex:Boys and Girls club and when I informed him of this three years ago he said he was going to get the daycare portion modified and never did even though I told him I would support that decision as I don't feel he should have to pay for a service that isn't being provided. However it had not been brought up again until now and quite honestly I just never paid attention to it as all my payments are put on a card under one umbrella of child support. (Oh and by the way it just to happened that he decided to file this motion right after he found out that I am in a serious relationship and brought my boyfriend to our daughters volleyball game) I would like to bring up the fact in court that before the order was modified to include daycare which originally I didn't even know was an option I paid over $10,000 in daycare fees. I have the tax returns to prove it.
He also wants me to pay for a dental bill of $1500.00 which never would have existed if he had followed up with the dental insurance company where the policy was in his wifes name and they would not speak to me when I called to get the approval and find out the coverage. I reminded him twice to do this and he said he would take care of it... I stupidly assumed he did. A month after my childs root canal there came the bill and he went through the roof. (as did I) If he had researched the coverage, then I would have been able to take her to an oral surgeon who works on a sliding fee scale, or to the county medical center , I qualify for a number of programs. I do not feel that I should have to pay for any of that bill because of this. Please help, I need to be prepared. Thanks in advance for your help.
Amy
Hi, I need to file a response to a Motion to modify support and have a few questions. I appreciate any advice. I am the Custodial parent and the NCP is going to court to get his support suspended or lowered as he is on unemployment, he is married and his wife works 3 jobs. I myself am not employed as I just had a baby recently and was not working before that since Sep 2003. I did not go back to try to get more when I lost my job and don't get why he would. He also hired an attorney, even though he is stating financial hardship, and wants me to pay the attorneys fees. In MN we have In Forma Pauperis, basically you can apply to get all filing fees etc. waved if you are on public assistance and or as the court sees fit based on your income. One can file these motions simply by downloading forms and filling them out. Will he get attorneys fees awarded? Should I bring up the In Forma Pauperis in court? He is also wanting to be reimbursed for daycare expenses he paid for the past three years, alleging that I didn't tell him that I wasn't paying them when in reality he was fully aware that I had put our child in two different non profit programs ex:Boys and Girls club and when I informed him of this three years ago he said he was going to get the daycare portion modified and never did even though I told him I would support that decision as I don't feel he should have to pay for a service that isn't being provided. However it had not been brought up again until now and quite honestly I just never paid attention to it as all my payments are put on a card under one umbrella of child support. (Oh and by the way it just to happened that he decided to file this motion right after he found out that I am in a serious relationship and brought my boyfriend to our daughters volleyball game) I would like to bring up the fact in court that before the order was modified to include daycare which originally I didn't even know was an option I paid over $10,000 in daycare fees. I have the tax returns to prove it.
He also wants me to pay for a dental bill of $1500.00 which never would have existed if he had followed up with the dental insurance company where the policy was in his wifes name and they would not speak to me when I called to get the approval and find out the coverage. I reminded him twice to do this and he said he would take care of it... I stupidly assumed he did. A month after my childs root canal there came the bill and he went through the roof. (as did I) If he had researched the coverage, then I would have been able to take her to an oral surgeon who works on a sliding fee scale, or to the county medical center , I qualify for a number of programs. I do not feel that I should have to pay for any of that bill because of this. Please help, I need to be prepared. Thanks in advance for your help.
Amy