What is the name of your state? NC
This is complicated. My husband is military and had a child with an ex girlfriend before we met. She lives in PA and he lived in SC at the time. Long story short he was paying child support on his own and then the ex filed thru the courts for CS for whatever reason. (His pay goes directly to SC) No big deal. Well, now we are married obviously and we have a child together (we live in NC now, the ex still in PA.) To add to it, I have a daughter from a previous MARRIAGE that lives with us. The difference being, My ex and I are very civil and don't irritate each other. Another thing is that my husbands pay has significantly dropped when we moved here...i.e. he left the drill field, we no longer collect BAH so on and so forth. Well, when SC figured what he needed to pay in CS my hubby was single at the time, collected more money, and didn't have any other children to pay for which is completely opposite now. To add to it, the ex harrasses my husband claiming to file for more money. My question is...can she get more money? Can we pay less since he makes less and has another child? And finally, do we need to go BACK to SC to file or refile any paperwork in reguards to this? Any sound advice will help me sleep better at night.