What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I have been with my significate other for over 10yrs he had a one night stand and it resulted in pregnancy...he told her he wanted nothing with her and as a womans choice she decided to have the child and now she is taking him for every last cent...we are still together but struggling to make ends meet he continues to be responsible for financial responsiblities without missing a payment and she continues to ask for more she has been unemployeed for over 1year and continues to threaten him that she will take him to court (which they already have gone to because she got a lawyer and we were forced to get one too, which by the way the judge order him to pay half of her fees even though it was her choice to get one...he never refused to pay any child support)...we have 2 kids together but our lawyer says it doesn't matter because he want nothing to do with the kid or her no visitations the fee will be that high...we are stuggling...we only have milk 2 eggs and cereal next paycheck is for bills and what ever we have left over will be for food...it breaks my heart that we are so stressed out...what can i do as his partner can i take this woman to court for pain and suffering since it was her choice to have the baby knowing the he wanted nothing to do with either of them...her "woman's choice to choose" is taking a toll on us and the well being of our kids...i know it takes too people but he made it clear where he stood and it was utl. her choice...there's got to be something we can do...
I have been with my significate other for over 10yrs he had a one night stand and it resulted in pregnancy...he told her he wanted nothing with her and as a womans choice she decided to have the child and now she is taking him for every last cent...we are still together but struggling to make ends meet he continues to be responsible for financial responsiblities without missing a payment and she continues to ask for more she has been unemployeed for over 1year and continues to threaten him that she will take him to court (which they already have gone to because she got a lawyer and we were forced to get one too, which by the way the judge order him to pay half of her fees even though it was her choice to get one...he never refused to pay any child support)...we have 2 kids together but our lawyer says it doesn't matter because he want nothing to do with the kid or her no visitations the fee will be that high...we are stuggling...we only have milk 2 eggs and cereal next paycheck is for bills and what ever we have left over will be for food...it breaks my heart that we are so stressed out...what can i do as his partner can i take this woman to court for pain and suffering since it was her choice to have the baby knowing the he wanted nothing to do with either of them...her "woman's choice to choose" is taking a toll on us and the well being of our kids...i know it takes too people but he made it clear where he stood and it was utl. her choice...there's got to be something we can do...