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Montgomery County, PA
I have had primary physical custody of my son for 10 years now. He is now 17 and a senior in High School. On August 31, 2011, I was laid off due to our branch office closing. I was unable to afford the condo I was renting and my landlord allowed me to break the lease and leave in early September. I had no option but to move my son and I to my sisters home (out of the school district), until I found a cheaper place to live. This was supposed to be temporary. In the meantime, my son is staying with his best friend on school nights. He has been in the same district since kindergarten. He refused to live with his father because as a Senior did not want to change schools and also in a recent argument, his father pushed him and also recently had a DUI which makes me nervous. Other than living out of our car, this temporary situation seemed best. Now, I have learned that within a week of my move, my ex husband has filed a petition to modify, telling me that what I am doing is illegal and basically scaring me to death. Do I have any options here? My support has stopped even though I am still providing food, clothing and trying to ease the burden of my sons stay by giving whatever I can to the parents. Now, I will never afford a place. Any advice would be appreciated.
And please consider, I was hoping to be out of my sisters and back into our own place within a couple of weeks. I just needed some time to find something. I am afraid I will lose my son now.
Montgomery County, PA
I have had primary physical custody of my son for 10 years now. He is now 17 and a senior in High School. On August 31, 2011, I was laid off due to our branch office closing. I was unable to afford the condo I was renting and my landlord allowed me to break the lease and leave in early September. I had no option but to move my son and I to my sisters home (out of the school district), until I found a cheaper place to live. This was supposed to be temporary. In the meantime, my son is staying with his best friend on school nights. He has been in the same district since kindergarten. He refused to live with his father because as a Senior did not want to change schools and also in a recent argument, his father pushed him and also recently had a DUI which makes me nervous. Other than living out of our car, this temporary situation seemed best. Now, I have learned that within a week of my move, my ex husband has filed a petition to modify, telling me that what I am doing is illegal and basically scaring me to death. Do I have any options here? My support has stopped even though I am still providing food, clothing and trying to ease the burden of my sons stay by giving whatever I can to the parents. Now, I will never afford a place. Any advice would be appreciated.
And please consider, I was hoping to be out of my sisters and back into our own place within a couple of weeks. I just needed some time to find something. I am afraid I will lose my son now.
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