Can 45 year old man do this to a girl 19?

[cherryman1]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California

I didn't know where to post this, so I thought civil was the best.

A 45 year old man lied about his age to my daughter, she is 19. He looks younger and told her he was 32. He got her comfortable enough at her place of work to invite her up to his hotel room when he came thru town on busines. Does she have any recourse against this man? She is in depression and it has has effected all family relationships.

 

[Zigner]

She's an adult...people fib about their age all the time.

 

[PhlawedPharmacy]

Tell her that if she liked him otherwise, there's no reason to be upset about a number, it is essentially meaningless.

If the digits themselves are too much to get over, then I guess everyone involved can understand why he had to lie. Sometimes you force the world to make sense, by any means necessary.

 

[Ohiogal]

he didn't commit a crime. She just apparently changed her mind. Get her in counseling to deal.

 

[xylene]

A 45 year old man lied about his age to my daughter, she is 19. He looks younger and told her he was 32. He got her comfortable enough at her place of work to invite her up to his hotel room when he came thru town on busines. Does she have any recourse against this man? She is in depression and it has has effected all family relationships.

This isn't illegal or even immoral.

 

[cyjeff]

And she is no longer a "girl".

 

[Roo]

This situation is so common it even has a name; May-December romance.

 

[HomeGuru]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California

I didn't know where to post this, so I thought civil was the best.

A 45 year old man lied about his age to my daughter, she is 19. He looks younger and told her he was 32. He got her comfortable enough at her place of work to invite her up to his hotel room when he came thru town on busines. Does she have any recourse against this man? She is in depression and it has has effected all family relationships.

**A: the word is affected, not effected. The effect he had on her may have affected her now. She has no recourse and it takes two to tango.

 

[xylene]

This situation is so common it even has a name; May-December romance.

I have better name: HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!

 

[cyjeff]

Not to minimize the OP's pain....

But not only is it legal, but I may have a new hero.

 

[HomeGuru]

Not to minimize the OP's pain....

But not only is it legal, but I may have a new hero.

**A: so the 19 year old girl is your hero?

 

[cyjeff]

**A: so the 19 year old girl is your hero?

Depends.

Is she the cheerleader on Heroes?

 

[PhlawedPharmacy]

Absurd. The biggest lie here is her perception of what 45 is. It's so strong that it's more powerful now than what she saw and experienced with her own 2 eyes.

 

[cherryman1]

Should a family member pay this man a visit?

 

[Zigner]

Should a family member pay this man a visit?

Nah, he's already "visited" with one of them