What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Someone recently issued a restraining order against me and set the court date for a day I was out of town.
I went to the courthouse to try to change the date but was told that I would need to hire a lawyer to do so, and since I never actually threatened this girl, I figured she did not have a case anyway and it wouldn't be worth spending money to hire or a lawyer or cancel my trip.
While I issued a written rebuttel making sure to mention the plethora of lies on the order she filed, the court still issued a 2 year restraining order and i have no clue what was said in court since I was not there. I know this person has it out for me and has said in writing that I "belong in jail" even though I have never threatened her and now I fear that she will use this restraining order to try to trap me into going to jail (we have a lot of mutual friends and we work in similar industries so it is not unlikely that she won't "accidentally" run into me and call the police. Do I have a case for filing a restraining order against her if the only proof of threat I have is an email where she says i "belong in jail"?*What I am also afraid of is that we might find ourselves accidentally working together and I will be the one*forced to quit because of the restraining order.*
Also, the restraining order notice was MAILED to me after the trial Is that even legal? Shouldn't someone have delivered it in person?
I also notice that although it says it was mailed by someone I don't know in a city that is an hour away from where the person who filed the order lives...the postage stamp says South Pasadena, which is where the girl who filed the order against me lives. So it looks like she just mailed it herself.
Someone recently issued a restraining order against me and set the court date for a day I was out of town.
I went to the courthouse to try to change the date but was told that I would need to hire a lawyer to do so, and since I never actually threatened this girl, I figured she did not have a case anyway and it wouldn't be worth spending money to hire or a lawyer or cancel my trip.
While I issued a written rebuttel making sure to mention the plethora of lies on the order she filed, the court still issued a 2 year restraining order and i have no clue what was said in court since I was not there. I know this person has it out for me and has said in writing that I "belong in jail" even though I have never threatened her and now I fear that she will use this restraining order to try to trap me into going to jail (we have a lot of mutual friends and we work in similar industries so it is not unlikely that she won't "accidentally" run into me and call the police. Do I have a case for filing a restraining order against her if the only proof of threat I have is an email where she says i "belong in jail"?*What I am also afraid of is that we might find ourselves accidentally working together and I will be the one*forced to quit because of the restraining order.*
Also, the restraining order notice was MAILED to me after the trial Is that even legal? Shouldn't someone have delivered it in person?
I also notice that although it says it was mailed by someone I don't know in a city that is an hour away from where the person who filed the order lives...the postage stamp says South Pasadena, which is where the girl who filed the order against me lives. So it looks like she just mailed it herself.