| selling co owned home I live in after divorce
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? washington
We are very worried about my fiance's ex wife(she's remarried now)who has entered our residence without our consent, continues hanging onto to him, calls him saying she's worried if he's ok cause she hasn't heard from him, sent him a dvd saying things like I'lll never let you go, I'll always love you....as a friend, I tried to find a way to have 2 husbands, then she relents saying she hears in his email,which asks her to respect boundries,he needs to live his life then dramatically throws the email in the recycle bin stating he should do the same. She has sabotaged the computer and repeatedly takes things & returns them without notice or request. These items were part of community property but she uses it as a revolving door excuse and also as her reason for getting into my personal belongings. She's gone thru a range of excuses from I need to see if any of my things are in your closet, I need to see my dogs, I need food from the garden, and finally she came over finding the locks changed, left a voicemail saying her divorce decree says she has right to check on workability and liveabilty of her house and she's going to break in and her ex will be paying for repairs cause he can't stop her from entering the home she co owns with him
The decree states they do co-own the home and he is to live in it, do everything to it, sell it, split the proceeds with her. She says now she will not sign off unless she gets to be here and make sure things are the way she wants them. They have no children but have dogs which are not included in the divorce decree. The decree states only the co ownership and his sole responsibility for everything and her getting half the proceeds.
They separated in Apr 08, divorced finalized Sept 08. She took almost everything of value from the house from Apr 08 to Mar 09, bringing her boyfriend over to help her. She's taken money from the mortgage account, took and hid the remaining home improvement money before he even thought about it, and changed her name and address on this acct and many others such that her ex husband, my fiance', cannot get history or statements on many things. The bank won't release records because her name is on them yet my fiance's paycheck goes in the acct. The do-it-yourself divorce she prepared gives them co ownership in the home but he has sole responsibility and burden to pay mortgage, taxes etc, live in home, sell it by a deadline and give her half the proceeds. She's changed her address and won't give the new one to him.
What rights does she have?
How can he get the home loan money he's paying on back along with money she stole from a bank account?
How can we get the bank records with his and her name on them to show more of what we know has happened right up to the day the TRO was served on her over here during an attempted break in?
She says she won't sign off and now she can't contact us due to restraining order that will hopefully be extended but he want's to sell the house and move. How can he do that and fulfill the divorce contract?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? | 
11-06-2009, 08:12 PM
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